KISS AND KISSING

The Fast Kiss

How important is it to kiss a girl when you first meet her? There are a couple ways of looking at it. The first: Does kissing a girl increase the likelihood of her returning my first call? From my experience and that of my friends, it seems to make no difference. That’s because kissing is really not a big deal in this culture, where girls will kiss a guy just because she is intoxicated and her friend is already hooked up with another guy.

~ KISSING  SYNONYMS ~

A thesaurus offers a plethora of ways to describe a good smooch: abandon, accost, address, attouchement, bid good day, bid good morning, blow a kiss, bob, bow, bow to, breath, brush, brush by, buss

Why is the first kiss so important ?

“The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has that surrender within it.”

~Emil Ludwig~

There is nothing quite as expressive as a kiss. Without a word we can communicate affection, friendship, and of course love, desire, and blazing passion. And no one knew that better than Scarlett O‟Hara and Rhett Butler in “Gone With The Wind”.

WHY PEOPLE KISS

What happens when a man and a woman kiss?

Methods for Initiating The Kiss

I Can’t.. They’re Watching

I look her deeply in the eyes and confess, “I have been thinking about kissing you for the last twenty minutes, -pause for effect-, but I can’t because the bartender is watching.”

At this point I have to read her a bit. If she seems like what I said is a positive thing or at least she isn’t leaning away or looking very uncomfortable I leave it for a moment for her response. If it is obvious I moved too fast then I just ask a completely unrelated question and keep going. I averted the disastrous rejection. More likely than not though, I have just given her a tool to give me permission to kiss her without being too forward. She will come back with “Really? I don’t think he is watching..”