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Attitude of your Mind

by brandie on May 21, 2009

If you have been getting negative feedback from people, your relationships are not as full as they could be, or it seems the world is treating you poorly, you have a negative attitude. To change the circumstances in our lives we must start with ourselves. Ouch - it's true.

If you have been getting negative feedback from others, it has 0% to do with them or the situation. It has 100% to do with you and the way you are choosing to interact

70 Comments

it is true when people think that it is good which is not
they don't really understand the mening love & life

46 months ago

sure, i have been wondering how to handle the diffucult people in my life and i ahd decided to just ignore them. but let me apply the action see what results i get.........

46 months ago

hummmmmmmmmm,
often times in life there is much to teh live we live than the things we say or that our heart really wish for we might often not get what we want but we can mostly work towards what we really want we are the end product of our choice we should be determined focus and courageous at all times.
be your self and be determined to be a success and you sha l be celebrated for it.





















































46 months ago

yeah...its true that we have to love the life we've have coz 4 me never regret something that once made u smile :)LIVE.LAUGH & LOVE... the truth s u dont know what s going 2 happen tomorrow. lyf s a crazy ryd,nd nothing s guaranteed...

45 months ago

be positive as always...

45 months ago

it seems easy but in the course of action we often found ourselves entangled with embroglio we subconciously made in the past that helplessly affects the present which means to say that we have to go through a process a long and tidious process that will put us to the test. Sometimes i can't help but ask why does it have to me after all that i have done after all the careful preparation but to no avail is it because of fate or my lack of faith? at the the end of it all i strive to rise up from the situation no matter how and what and go on living so that others may live. i have to sometimes die for my self so that others may live even though they don't sem to deserve it.

45 months ago

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45 months ago

We don't need validation from others to fulfill our dreams. Just believe in yourself.

45 months ago

after all life is what we make it.

44 months ago

yah right ! ! ! continue finding ways to improve your life. Think positively. If today isn't so good sure tomorrw will get better just try to be good, do ur part and god will be happy to help us. . . . .

44 months ago

Thank you folks for all the encouraging comments ...We are what we think and we are what we say...Whatever is in our hearts and mind comes out in what we say and action. If you want to do good to others you cannot do it on your own you will have to have the intervention from the Almighty God.. He is the only one that will give you the heart and mind to accept others as you are. He said "Love one another as I have loved you" Now that is real love .... He gave his life for each and everyone of us...and He also said to Love your enemies and forgive them... now that is impossible on humantarian grounds...but it is possible with God... So if Christ leaves within you then only you can do the impossible...LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. then everything else will fall in place and you can forgive and forget.

44 months ago

The environment will treat you as you treat them... Anything that we do whether it is good or bad then we will get that back again...

44 months ago

just don't mind what other people say. as long as you know what makes you happy and as long as you know what is right from wrong.

44 months ago

just don't mind what other people say. as long as you know what makes you happy and as long as you know what is right from wrong.

44 months ago

just don't mind what other people say. as long as you know what makes you happy and as long as you know what is right from wrong.

44 months ago

Thank you folks for all the encouraging comments ...We are what we think and we are what we say...Whatever is in our hearts and mind comes out in what we say and action. If you want to do good to others you cannot do it on your own you will have to have the intervention from the Almighty God.. He is the only one that will give you the heart and mind to accept others as you are. He said "Love one another as I have loved you" Now that is real love .... He gave his life for each and everyone of us...and He also said to Love your enemies and forgive them... now that is impossible on humantarian grounds...but it is possible with God... So if Christ leaves within you then only you can do the impossible...LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. then everything else will fall in place and you can forgive and forget

44 months ago

Don"t think pepule what they are thinking live as tou wish.

44 months ago

ruks
The main issue here is to ignore those that are negative towards u because sometimes that feeling is innate nothing can change it. I have put that method into practice i.e of trying to be nice to pple i get negative feedback from but to no avail.

44 months ago

life is what we live. think positive and it will lead us to the proper direction. do not bother what people say about.

44 months ago

ATTITUDE
the longer i live, the more i realise the impact of attitude on life. attitude to me, is more important than past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think say or do. it is more important than appearance, than gifted ability, or skilll. it will make or break a company, a church, a home.
the remarkable thing is that we have a choice everyday regarding the ATTITUDE we will embrace from that day. we cannot change our past, we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. we cannot change the inevitable. the only thing that we can do is play on the one string that we have and this string is , ATTITUDE. i am convinced that life is ten percent what happens to me and ninety percent how i react to it. and so it is with u...we are in charge of our attitudes!!

44 months ago

The negative or positive attitude toward something is all define by on our own mindset,for example of half cup of water whereby people when thirsty on the desert will react positively when see this but negative people will blame why only half and not full glass of water.

44 months ago

life is too short, enjoy it................

43 months ago

love is full and its spices a lot to our life,... there is ups and downs behind it just to test that love how strong u have with ur love,.. f its just shallow kind of love or whatever,... for me i cant live in this world with out the love of GOD most...and keep loving other people as i love myself thru... yeah..... LOVE IS GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

42 months ago

today is the gift which is given by god so live today. Never worry about tomorrow. Remember one thing
past is cancelled cheque so dont think about past too.

42 months ago

Thank the good Lord fro the moment.Praise God for everything.

41 months ago

hello, all! I nicely read all your comments there. I got some note to share you all. Well, how much, I am being honest and faithful to anyone else. ppl or my special one never try to trust me. But I never get hot upon their behaviour towards me. I am being very positive way. I love my life. We are born only ones so, have to enjoy the world.Never feel sad . Wish and pray for living creatures, suddenly God is there to help you , listen you, hear you. Nothing is imposible, if you are truthful, honest, faitful so...on...as in turn goodness will reward to you at the end by God. Never feel sad comparing to others life..Be strong and live happily.

41 months ago

no matter what they say and do unto me im still a worthwhile person. just do things right and ask god for help.

41 months ago

no matter what they say and do unto me im still a worthwhile person. just do things right and ask god for help.

41 months ago

Just think that we are HUMANS and we cant please everybody

41 months ago

positivity is the key to a peaceful and happy world

41 months ago

LOVEE. don't care about what poeple say negatively about you, just try to be yourself, maitain good health, love others without crititism, think positive about yourself, others and be ambitious. Trust in God and love the tructure He gives you cos He has reason for that. work hard to ahieve. with this u will live happily and lovely.

41 months ago

hej
jag herer ahmed

41 months ago

LOVEE. don't care about what poeple say negatively about you, just try to be yourself, maitain good health, love others without crititism, think positive about yourself, others and be ambitious. Trust in God and love the tructure He gives you cos He has reason for that. work hard to ahieve. with this u will live happily and lovely.

best of love

41 months ago

Life is agift of god ,why to boughter for past live in today and dream for tomorrow ,to be positive .A new day is waiting for u opened armed,fill it with love n love n love n love.

41 months ago

Think positively. Most importantly have absolutely strong faith in the Almighty God and have great trust in His powers. As a Holy Spirit, think always that He is omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent. Be compassionate with all human beings. Have no bad agenda in your heart . He will shower you with great wisdom, make you live a happy and blissful life, free you from all harm and evil. God can perform miracles if our hearts are absolutely clean. Always remember that He is God the Almighty and the Most Holy Spirit.

41 months ago

Just do it what ever ur heart say's, if u think that its right. Don't mind what other people say. as long as you know what makes you happy and as long as you know what is right from wrong, and spread ur happiness around the all peaple, and make them happy. It the true way to fellreal happy.

41 months ago

live with love and try to happy other. live also for others

40 months ago

live with love and try to happy other. live also for others

40 months ago


positive attitude makes your life and others too v easy, smling faces r always welcomed. so try to be happy and well mannered.

40 months ago


positive attitude makes your life and others too v easy, smling faces r always welcomed. so try to be happy and well mannered.

40 months ago

Everything you have everything you are is Looooooooooooooove

40 months ago

LIFE IS HOW U MAKE IT ,SO MAKE IT GOOD AND YOU WILL ENJOY THE REST OF UR DAY IN PEACE

40 months ago

satisfaction is very important in your live

40 months ago

Satisfying someone has become a hard thing to do these days as the more you give in the more people take advantage of you as they think that you cannot hit back, as such you must understand what type of a person you are dealing with and treat that person as you figure him/her.

40 months ago

Live to be a good person recognised in this world. Don't let your live useless. Maintain it and you will find a prosperous future. Let God fills your live for succeed.

40 months ago

TRY TO BE HAPPY BY THINKING THAT THIS BAD TIME WILL NEVER REMAIN.ONCE AGAIN THE TIME WILL CHANGE INTO GOOD.

39 months ago


Birhan Siru ( From Ethiopia)


Love is nothing but that you have to always give with out expectation of return from the receipiant.Hence, it negates principle of give and take. And it is when you think and do in such away that you can enjoy all the fruits of love i.e peace, Happiness,being loved by others etc.

39 months ago

anyway whatever happens in the past,IM SURE YOU LEARNED A LESSON FROM IT,LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FUULLEST AND ENJOY GODS GIFT......











39 months ago

well said always keep hope for the good form ALLAH.This is.........TARIQ ALI

39 months ago