The Language of Love

Anyone who has been in a long-term, caring relationship learns to be careful how they speak of their partner. Careless or critical words and overly personal details shared can damage trust and cause lasting harm to a relationship.

But what about single people who are looking to find love? They may be surprised to learn that the words they speak can make a big difference in both their ability to attract a mate and build a healthy relationship.

This is because language is a lot more than the words we use to describe our lives. It shapes our emotions and, for better or worse, how we see the world. In other words, our talk shapes our reality, affecting how we see ourselves and how others view us.

How does a person know if they are talking themselves out of love? Following are some tips:

For people seeking relationships:

1. What are you saying (to yourself and others)? If you’re committed to being in love, what do you talk about with your friends? Start paying attention to what you tell yourself and others about your love