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* Arlene * helps shelters for abused women and children.

I usually try to live my life as carefree and happy as I possibly can. There's an expression I heard the other day about how we should live life as if we were dying because then we would learn to cherish what we have, and truly enjoy every second and every minute of our existence on this earth. Yet, reality always seems to come back and hit me in the face. 

35 Comments

Yea it's tough. Mourning takes a while and it's a healing process. After that I go about living in the moment and enjoying what's coming up next and not to dwell in the past :)

24 months ago

YAh...isn't that ironic... we struggle in life and eventually we just die. All of those years we worked hard to gain all that we have, family friends, material things, memories....well practically everything. Just to end up being buried under..... I guess this is why God doesn't want us to be too attached to all that is of this world. When you get older and the thought of mortality sets in....all your priorities gets narrowed down to one thing.... fear of death. To ignore it would be naive..... it's just a topic most of us don't wan to talk about. But it's there and we just need to accept and be ready for it. (gosh I wish they could discover the"God Gene really soon..LOL). Acceptance is key, grow more in spirit... and just enjoy life as it goes... don't worry too much. Love yah Arlene! ;)

23 months ago

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23 months ago

Nice blog Arlene. Funerals are not too bad these days, where we don't feel obligated to shed tears, we can add a bit of humor in describing past antics of the loved ones. Funny highlights of the past. It definitely puts people more at ease.

22 months ago

very nice post great job thank's for sharing keep it up.

21 months ago

you have made mi night 2 weeks I lost mi grandma and I was soooo down, kudos for posting such a great insight.

20 months ago

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20 months ago

Good post

20 months ago

good post arlene...thanks for sharing.

20 months ago

thanks for this iformathion

20 months ago

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19 months ago

this was very true always live life as it is your last day on earth and cherish every moment

18 months ago

i feel the pain, we are also surprise when my uncle pass away it was due to stroke and heart problem. .

18 months ago

i like this post, very nice sharing..thanx

18 months ago

nice

16 months ago


Nice info... Keep it up

16 months ago

that's why we should not boast about tomorrow .. :) because we don't really know what will happen..

16 months ago

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16 months ago

nice

16 months ago

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16 months ago

thanx for infom post..........thanks for sharing........great work,dear .........keep it up....

16 months ago

wonerful post!! So true, live your life as if there is no tommorrow, because who knows what the future holds.

15 months ago

wow very excellent post because who knows what the future keep it up

15 months ago

like it

15 months ago

nice..........................

15 months ago

hey arlene,
will you marry me? :)

14 months ago

Great blog thanks for sharing

14 months ago

The advice might involve irreversible risks.

13 months ago