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Lee Rollinson helps fight Alzheimer's Disease.

My Mother died when i was just a babe .My Father abandent me and went away to the big City.My Grandma raised me she was up in years and had allready raised a big family who i thought were my brothers and sisters as i was looked upon as the youngest of the family.but they were my aunts and uncles allready adults when i came along.Iwas eightenn years old when i first met my father he came back when i was little but i do not remember that The most things i remember about my father is he was a cruel man.I was restricted from doing many things when i was growing up rules my father laid down for my granma.My Grandma would get cruel letters from him i can remember all the crying she did .when i was older i used to go to the Post  Office and pick up the mail if there was one from my father to Grandma i would open it read the nasty things he wrote and then destroy it so Grandma would not know .I also would get a nasty letter there was never a Birthday or Christmas card or anythinmg else from him .He had got married again and had another family  that i never got to know . they say behind a good man is usually a good woman  so if  his second wife had been a good woman  she would have made sure he stayed in touch with his daughter  but i think she just hosted him on. when i was eighteen years old he came for a visit.but he was a stranger to me i was grown up now and i could speak up for myself which i did. Iessoned to all his storys of the

184 Comments

This so sad. I know how painful it is. But you did the right thing. No matter what it is. He is still your father. I'm kind of proud for what you did at the end.I'm sure your grandma is very very proud of you cause I am my friend. A person with the good heart will always be bless. :)

23 months ago

thank you foryour kind remarks

23 months ago

It is sad to know that you have that adverse situation growing up. But we cannot select our parents. God gave you your Grandma to take care of you and fill up your parenting needs. And thus you grow up to be an honorable woman. God is great!

23 months ago

my grandma loved me ..she taught me morals and etics i live up to untill this day

23 months ago

This sad but you have the greatest victory for you learned to forgive him, now you have that peace and can go on with your life, you must of had a great grandmother who loved you and loved your father unconditional.

23 months ago

it is all a long story ...yes my grandma loved me very much .she taught me morals and etics i live up to untill this day

23 months ago

my father was her favourite son and he treated her badly

23 months ago

Hi Lee. I really like this story and the way you write.

23 months ago

thank you kindly

23 months ago

Your story is a sad one in regard to your father. My dear father passed away when I was very young and my stepfather didn't know how to be a loving father to a child. But you and I both survived without having the love of our biological fathers while we were growing up, and that's the main thing, right? I had a favorite uncle, my dad's brother that would come to visit me occasionally and he was a great father figure in my life who treated me with much kindness whenever he would come for a visit.

23 months ago

my grandfather made a wonderful dad ..he was gentle and kind .it seems we shared many things you and me .thank you fior visiting

23 months ago

Hi LL,
These are not quite happy childhood memories. Good thing you wrote them down to share with us. You deserve so much more.
... Glad you made peace with your father before he died. I know how you feeling.
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23 months ago

most of my child hood was a nightmare .but it made me strong

21 months ago

Interesting Story I Hope You Continue To Be A Positive Example To Your Child.

23 months ago

and may i ask wich child

23 months ago

LL, that is quite good question. which child..?

23 months ago

this is sad, not having a father's love even though he is alive. My 1st daughter lost her father when she was few months old. But I remarried again, eventhough she has a step father, it is still not the same.

23 months ago

my grandfather was a good dad ..but he was up in years

23 months ago

Thank you for sharing about yourself. You are a great person. Victory is yours.

22 months ago

thank you ..i have written other true storys as well cheerssss

22 months ago

It is ok. Please, Remember my BLOGS. thanks. How are you today?

22 months ago

like wise ...wish i could say all is well

22 months ago

All is well, believe, have FAITH. It is well with you, and me too. You are great and hard inteligent.

22 months ago

i am sad right now ..but i go to church

22 months ago

What happen? please can you share with me? If you want. Dont be sad. What ever the problem is, you are bigger than that problem, Rejoice my sister

22 months ago

thank you brother

21 months ago

Sad story but thanks for sharing. I was more people would share their stories.

22 months ago

i wrote other true storys about me

22 months ago

Good story, glad you made peace with you dad before he died, no matter what he bring you into this world.

22 months ago

thank you .i write many true storys

22 months ago

May one day you can put it all together in a book.

22 months ago

wish i could .some right hear

22 months ago

GREAT SHARING.THANKS.FRIEND.YOU ARE GREAT.
KEEP IT UP.BEST WISHES.
GOD LOVE AND BLESSINGS ON YOUR WAY..............................

22 months ago

thank you friend

22 months ago

WELCOME,FRIEND.

22 months ago

A touching story Lee

22 months ago

thank you

22 months ago

I can relate this story, since I have a father who was not.. until now I never seen him even a shadow....

22 months ago

ve something in common

22 months ago

so sad story..God bless you

21 months ago

likewise

21 months ago

ITS VERY SAD STORY BUT... YOU ARE A VERY GOOD BRAVE WOMAN CONGRATS MY DEAR...!!!

21 months ago

i have to be strong especially now

21 months ago

KEEP GOING BE STRONG..GOD ALWAYS IS WITH YOU... AND ME TOO

21 months ago

i am strong i never had ant choice but to be

21 months ago

CONGRATS MY FRIEND YOU ARE GOING AND DOING VERY GOOD.. HAVE A GOD STRONG

21 months ago

thank u

19 months ago

THANKS TO BOOST ME

21 months ago

thats whjat friends are for

21 months ago

life is not equal some children complete and happy living there parents.
very sad story thank you nice post.

21 months ago

kindly welcome

21 months ago

Great true story. Nice sharing.

21 months ago

thank iou kindly

21 months ago

great , this one really had gone to my heart , a true father should be there a support in our life then it is great

21 months ago

he made my life a night mare

21 months ago

sorry, to hear this

20 months ago

do nott be sorry ..i had a great grandma

20 months ago

Like others above, I sympathize - very sad to hear that. Still, you were blessed to have had a grandma who loved you a lot. I don't know which is better - an absent father, or someone who's around but abusive.

19 months ago

my grandparents love me

19 months ago

Wish my siblings & I had spent lots of time with our grandparents, but only our grandmas lived long, and they didn't live with us.

19 months ago

cheersssssssssss

19 months ago

I like the honesty you write about your life. I am glad you appreciate all those around you. I think your father didnt do that that is why he seems to be a bitter person.

19 months ago

thank you .it is true

19 months ago

nice story

19 months ago

You are an inspiration to me Lee. By knowing all your sufferings during your childhood and how you managed them, I have many things to learn from you. And one more thing that I want to point out is that I am afraid that I might be like your your husband. I have never give any present to my wife. I am ashamed of my innocence. I learnt a good lesson from your story Lee.

19 months ago

which story
Why not give your wife her present .do it for valentine ..you will good about yourself

19 months ago

I dont know how to explain what i think about you Lee,, but overall two thumbs for you,, :)

19 months ago

thank you kindly

19 months ago

Its just sad that there are cruel father. But I'm glad that before your father died you made peace with him. Have a nice day ahead.

18 months ago

thank you kindly

18 months ago

Glad we have nice grandmas

18 months ago

Sad story with a bright ending. Your Grandma and God would be proud that you made peace with your father. You have learned a lot and that will move you to make a difference in someone else's life.

All the best!

18 months ago

thank you kindly

18 months ago

You're welcome.

18 months ago

lucky to have good grandmas

18 months ago

nice post

18 months ago

thank uuuuuuuuu

14 months ago

You suffered a lot dear but at the end you'll gain the good you done to your dad, you will be proud of yourself and feel peace of mind, God will reward you, be with god he will be with you , I'm here for any thing I can do for you.

17 months ago

thank you my child hood was not easy

17 months ago

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17 months ago

oh sorry dear when read it again I realized my mistake sorry, will you read my new blog and tell me your opinion.

17 months ago

Each of us has his own sad childhood.
It was just different from each other.
I could say, yours was really a very sad life.
But you are still so lucky, for you have made peace with him before he died.
having made peace with him means you are peace with yourself also.
Jesus taught us to be forgiving and be humble.
forgiving him means you are humbling yourself in the eyes of God.
This is a very good story you shared with us you know.

17 months ago

GOD bLESS YOU FOR YOUR WORDS WE CAN ALSO HAVE SAD THINFGS IN ADULTS .. I AM GOING THROUGH THAT STAGE RIGHT NOW

17 months ago

you are still so lucky to have him as your father.
look at you
you're so pretty hahahhahahahahha.
if not because of him, there ill be no Lee now.

17 months ago

i did have a mother as well

17 months ago

Very nice,Lee, you did the right thing,well done. It is really hard to forgive, but If God forgives,why cant we? if we can help other people, why can u not help your dad, treat him as other person who just need your help.But to ignore him completely,that is against the will of God. And it is good that you made the right decision, and now you are at peace..Congrats,because i know that is hard to do,,but you still able to do it. Thank you for sharing.

17 months ago

i did it for me ..not for him , my grandma loved me

17 months ago

You have the heart of a vast area that never endless like ​​ocean. Interesting life story.

17 months ago

thank uuuu

17 months ago

You had a very sad life Lee!! As a child ...it wasn't fair for you. At least you made peace with him before he died. Look at the good part of your life, that being with your Grandma. What a special lady she was. Just thank God daily for what you have in your life today!! Thank's for sharing!

17 months ago

thank you for comming
my grandma loved me

17 months ago

Your welcome Lee!! She sure did Lee and what a beautiful lady for looking after you!!

17 months ago

my grandma was a woman of God

17 months ago

o poveste trista, copii nu poarta vina ca s-au nascut. omenia nu mai exista, doar egoismul si rautatea.

16 months ago