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What Does Kevin Spacey Say About His Exes?

Hey Doc,

I’m still learning “The System” and getting better at it with each girl. I just want to thank you for writing your book; it has helped me more than anything else I’ve tried with women and dating.

But here’s my problem. As hard as this is for me to admit, I’m a 27-year-old guy who’s never had a girlfriend! I can approach girls, get numbers, and even second dates thanks to your techniques, but that’s as far as it goes.

The thing that trips me up now is when I’m dating a girl and she asks me, “So, how many girlfriends have you had?” And “What happened to your last relationship? Why did you break up?”

What am I supposed to say, Doc? I never had a girlfriend! I tried saying “I don’t think it’s proper for me to talk about other women on such a personal basis with you,” but they keep insisting. Then I try deflecting the pressure by saying “There’s no point in talking about the past.”

By now the girl assumes I’ve been dumped again and again, but she keeps asking over and over until she gives up. Unfortunately, I know the subject will come up again. I could lie and make up stories about past girlfriends, but it could come back to haunt me.

In your book you say that if this situation comes up I should just say my ex was an Inflexible Taker. But I’d be lying since there is no ex. Should I just be honest and tell these women I’ve never had a girlfriend?

I’m in a catch-22 situation because if you don’t have experience with girls then they hold it against you (and probably leave), but you can’t get experience unless you get a girl in the first place.

I hope you can help me with this situation, Doc, I really need it.

Beck - who’s trying to get on the scoreboard

Hi Beck,

I’m sorry to hear that you haven’t snagged yourself a squeeze yet, but by your own admission you’re getting better with the girls. This is important.