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*Heather * helps shelters for abused women and children.

 

 
Put blinders on to those things that conspire to hold you back, especially the ones in your own head. —Meryl Streep

 

You know those suggestive little voices that whisper in your ear...and suddenly you're knee-deep in ice cream? Change the sabotaging, discipline-destroying thoughts, and you can change your life--or at least your weight.

 What my little voice usually says is, "It's okay, it's just one french fry." Or, "It's just this lunch." Or, "I worked out today, I deserve it." Basically, I justify it.

Sometimes I feel okay about doing it to, until I go and put on shorts, and then I think "Why did I eat that?" 

To prevent this scenario from playing over and over, I have redefined my idea of healthy eating. I allow myself the occasional treat, as long as it's accompanied by smarter food choices like fresh fruit and vegetables. At roughly 500 calories, one melted cheddar on rye a week should hardly make me fat! Habitually tacking on a large order of fries every day, however, might.

I've changed my thinking patterns as well. Here are some examples:

Old thought: I'll just have this one cookie.

Switched to... I'll have something else that's sweet, that's similar flavor of the cookie, and hopefully that'll satisfy my craving.  If it's a chocolat chip cookie. I'll have a hot chocolate with honey or stevia. If it's an oatmeal raisin cookie, I'll have a couple of dates. If it's a peanut butter cookie, I'll have a stick of celery with peanut butter. It usually works. If I still want the cookie after 20 min.; then I usually have one and savor it slowly.

Old thought: My husband says my butt is looking fat, so I guess I should start exercising.

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