David Grazian, PhD, author of On the Make: The Hustle of Urban Nightlife, states that “Men are possessed by the myth of the pickup.” He adds that most men think clubs and bars are “teeming with anonymous females who are dying to have sex with any guy who is confident enough to talk to them.” The truth of the matter is that less than 6% of women admit to having had sex with their partners within 2 days of meeting them, and less than 20% of adults report that they first met their most recent sexual partner in a bar. What does this mean for you barflies? It’s time to expand your social horizons.

Volunteer Groups

One of the best ways to meet women is volunteering for a good