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Kimberlee Kelly helps support troops overseas.

My first week

by Kimberlee Kelly on January 25, 2012

I went threw alot of mixed feelings the first few days. I had feelings of anger, grief, bitterness, sadness. I tossed these feeling around like a football. I felt some confusion because I dont no if Im relieved or heartbroken. I felt his unhappiness at the end and it only mad me sad. As of today Im feeling better and ready to start my new life. How I am surviving: I got advice from a counsiler. I have the support of family and friends. Im trying not to become unproductively stuck in emotions. However I took a few days just to grieve the loss. Im not blaming either of us. However im taking tome to process the changes in my life. This is what I am working on: empathy for the both of us. more grace, sensitivity and compassion. I will not rebound into what I have been told is a toxic relationship. So I will be moving on. This is a emotionally challenging time for me, But I am becoming emotionally stable and am moving on. This relationship ending

2 Comments

I feel compassion for you , I know how it feels because we are in the same situation.
I just hope everything become better for you and keep moving. Thanks for sharing your story.
Nothing is perfect in this world.

13 months ago

I can feel your pain when I read these words you shared here. Time does heal wounds. I wish all the best for you and I think you are wise not to do anything drastic regard jumping into a new relationship quickly on the rebound. Sometimes time alone is a good thing for one to reflect before they take any future steps back into a new relationship to help one sort out their feelings. God bless and keep you.

8 months ago