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Marriage Was Not DesignedMarriage Was Not DesignedMarriage Was Not Designed

Marriage was not designed to make you happy, satisfied, or whole. If you go into it for any of the aforementioned reasons, you’re in for a rude awakening.

Marriage Was Not Designed

First let me preface this post by saying that I in no way claim to be an expert on marriage. My husband and I have been married a little under four years and we’re still learning a lot of things about being married. If you want expert advice, talk to someone who’s been at this for decades (and let me listen in). I can only share what I’ve learned so far. Further, I assure you that, despite the tone of this post, I really love being married. However, I don’t want people to be delusional about what marriage is or is not. So let me share with you what marriage cannot do.

Marriage Was Not Designed

Marriage cannot make you happy.

Marriage Was Not Designed

I think it’s safe to say that many people who want to be married think that marriage will make them happy, but I maintain that’s just not true. We’ve all grown up with the fairy tales where the princess finds a prince, gets married, and lives “happily ever after.” Simply put, nothing can “make” you happy. Absolutely nothing. Happiness is a personal choice and is not contingent upon one’s circumstances. There are plenty of happy poor folks and

17 Comments

well i am not agree with you. because if you and your life partner are loving each other then the relation really to design for happiness.

15 months ago

i m fully agree with you but if you read the post this articles with fully concentration i think you have understand all
Thank u so much for comments Kainnat Mahmood

15 months ago

great articles of life partner and respective each other
and satisfied
Thanks for this post

15 months ago

good defination of marrige after love..

15 months ago

Thanks Razib Hossain

15 months ago

nice post, good

15 months ago

that true, as an individual you have to do it by yourself, and by your partner's self, to make your relationship work. If one depending in the other, how can it work? Then trust each other, so that you can make a better foundation in your relationship.

Nice post thanks for sharing it...^_^

14 months ago

Thanks Tommy Tran and
especial thanks Sandra F

14 months ago

Thx Sandra

11 months ago

Interesting your post, success

9 months ago

Thank u Pirvu Adrian

9 months ago

Nice one! if you see the title, you won't agree on it, but if you have to read it, you will come to understand why it was given that title.

8 months ago

Thank u very much for your comments

8 months ago

Yest Debbie thank u very much for your nice comments

8 months ago

marriage is a 2 wheeler byke which can b balanced by both
nice post u r doing well Zerin

8 months ago

yah definitely are balance by both
thanks for nice comments

8 months ago