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WE often hear parents scolding their children and calling them names in public. Many passers-by would just walk away while some would watch the commotion from a distance. No one would go to the child’s rescue.
We don’t realise that children, especially very young children, are suffering when their parents or guardians repeatedly yell and hurl abusive words at them.
In many households, parents continue to believe that children will get over this emotional hurt when they grow up, and learn something out of this discipline.
The truth is far from this. Today, we live among adults who are emotionally scarred by the threats, name-calling and neglect they experienced as children. The vicious cycle continues when they become parents as they may adopt the same parenting style with their own children.
Unfortunately, we live in a “culture of silence” and choose not to interfere when we see children get yelled at or thrown out of the house as punishment.
Once I witnessed two young children squatting outside their house. They were sobbing uncontrollably. I found out that they were locked out as punishment for disobeying their mother. I voiced out my concern for their safety and well-being.
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43 Comments
awesome post, you are a very good blogger
very good post matt about parenting it very important, thank you for this post.
Awesome article ...Thanks for sharing!
yeah matt i agree with u really informative and unique post i really like it thanks for sharing such a nice post:)
very usefull Matt, thank you very much :-)
nice post
great post, veri helpful!
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I loved this post...No child should be struck or abused by name calling. Children learn by example and should be treated with positive reinforcment. Great post..
yea ..
it should be taught to them
nice sharing
yup, Dave its a great sharing
very nice post and sharing..........
very nice post and sharing..........
very nice post and sharing..........
very nice post and sharing..........
thanks for your wonderful comments...let us share and learn
This post helps a lot of parents in the field of "parenting'.
I agree with you that parents should not shout or say
negative things, as rebuttals to their children's tantrum
or in whatever extreme behavioral concerns. Being
negativist and radical to our children will just create
a barrier towards their emotional maturation. The more
we hurt their feelings causes a deeper sense of self-pity
and self-mistrust. Thanks for this post matt.
good comments Ms Fraulein...thanks...as parents sometimes we tend to forget lots of things...this a good reminder
great way to teach children to be confident
being locked out as punishment is too much but i think yelling or scolding when you do something wrong is not that bad but the thing is the kids might get used to it and do the same with their kids
nice sharing about parenting..thanks
thanks guys...we are often get carried away when we are angry with our children...
Excellent...info...:)
Great sharing...MAHALO....:)
good
This is a good article. I think we all should be aware of what goes on around us and if we see a child being mistreated we need to stand up for that child before its too late. Thanks for the post.
Thanks guys...let's be nice to our children
goof phlosphy for children
very good post matt about parenting it very important, thank you for this post.nice inspiration sharing
Parents should take a special course like 'how to be good parent'..macam mana?
thanks guys for you comments...
nice
thank you guys...parenting course is good for parents nasa...make us better parents
Building self-esteem in children.......... excellent post to educated them in growing ages
love it
Disciplining a child is an art and science. Many parents still believe that disciplining a child is all about punishing and scolding.
nice post
Thanks my friends for your good comments. It's important to be consistent about discipline. If you don't stick to the rules and consequences, kids aren't likely to either.
Good, very interesting topic & nice fruitful informative
article. Thanks for informational sharing.
This is a very useful article especially for parents who do not recognize the line between discipline and abuse. Thanks for sharing this, Matt
Thanks Nicole.
cum ii cresti ..asa ii ai!
Thanks Cristea