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Having spent time in conversation talking about important aspects of your life together in preparation to writing your wedding or marriage vows, have you talked about MONEY? Your money, his/her money, 'our' money.

Money is as intimate, personal, and sensual as sex. You will think about money as often or more often than sex!

They are the top two reasons for the disastrous divorce statistics.......................paypal donation to revbrian

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You owe it to yourself and your partner to get the money conversation out of the way before it becomes a problem.

Unless you have the whole topic of money out in the open, under control, and have a plan relating to how you save, spend and give your money you have dug a huge hole you will most likely fall into.

Thinking about not having money will get in the way of all your plans for your life. It creates tension and fear. There is no energy left for anything else.

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When it comes to money most couples are dishonest because they simply haven't opened up about their money history or the beliefs they have around money. They may not have lied but they haven't told the truth either.

When you are writing and pledging your wedding or marriage or commitment vows you want them to reflect the dream you have for your life together. That can only happen if they are written from a place of honesty.

One reason it doesn't come up is because before the marriage it's 'my' money and 'your' money. After the ceremony it becomes 'our' money. It gets downright personal. This talk should