Basics of Love

As all older women know through the experiences that life has given them, there are indeed certain types of men to avoid. It is true that not all men are the same but there are some general characteristics that if they form the specific characteristics of a man then he is to be avoided like the plague, or if you are already with him, then drop him as fast as possible.

Today we shall discuss the categories of the types of men to avoid so as to have a healthy relationship that has a viable future with the one you do eventually choose.

The Needy Baby

A man who has failed to grow up despite his being 30 years of age and thinks you are his care taker is not ready for a relationship unless you want to become a substitute mother. Not only does he behave like a little boy who has no responsibilities, he constantly expects you to put his needs before yours or anyone else. He will be whining all the time that you do not care enough for him or some other complaint.

Can’t hold a job, is living with you, blames everyone else for his own mistakes, throws tantrums and is constantly playing video games instead of going out to find a job and you know you are dealing with an overgrown boy. His enthusiasm may be great when the relationship is new, but being an adult means having responsibilities and not always waiting for someone else to take care of you.

The Narcissistic and Abusive Creep

In the beginning he is all charm, but watch out for the’everything is about me behavior’. Right from the first date, he insists on ordering for you and by the third date he has this smug look on his