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Does it seem like you can accomplish anything you set your mind to in your life career, interests, hobbies, friends - except for meeting the right guy and having a lasting, committed relationship with him? I can’t image why intelligent, successful, attractive women wonder why the right guy hasn't shown up and recognized them for the great women they are. If you did somehow meet a great guy, are you confident that you'd know what this attractive, successful, and together single man was really looking for in a woman? And more importantly - would you know how to have him RECOGNIZE YOU as the right woman for him and want to be with you and explore a real relationship? There's a common strategy lots of smart women take on when they sense something has shifted or is off in their relationship with a man. But instead of this strategy helping the relationship get back on track, it often accidentally creates distance in the relationship and pushes the man away. I call this strategy the "Convincer." I'll explain it like this... Smart women often have high-standards and expect the best for themselves - from their relationship and from the man they're with - and that's a great thing. So when they aren't getting what they know is the best from the relationship, they take action. Now, it's a MUST to communicate and share your feelings when you don't feel your partner is giving to you and your relationship the way you are, and it's a good thing to do this as soon as you feel it. However, many women take action by trying to take the lead in the relationship in hopes that this will "fill the gaps" in the relationship 
and start to make things work better and get the man re-engaged again.
But the reality is that making this shift into trying to take charge and lead often ends up with the woman feeling both unappreciated, and like 
she's the one trying to "convince" the man that the relationship should be different and better.
I'm sure I don't have to tell you that this is not a place where you want to be as a woman in a relationship. Plus... Convincing is a 100% sure way to turn a man off and stop any attraction he might have been feeling for you. There's a much, much better way... THE SMART WAY TO KEEP A MAN ENGAGED There's a way to communicate with a man and keep him invested in you and the relationship -without any convincing at all. Doing this involves three key elements. Do you know what these 3 communication elements are? COMMUNICATION SECRET #1: Truly Listen Men - just like women - need to feel like it's
okay to have their feelings, and that they will be
heard and respected. And when they realize their
partner isn't really listening or interested in 
who they truly are or how they truly feel, they 
will start to shut off bit by bit.
A man can sense how a woman is trying to talk
with him or ask him questions, and he can sense 
if there are intense emotions behind what she's
saying.
That's why for a man, there are really two
main ways that he will sense a woman's 
communication in these more intense times of 
potential relationship conflict.

19 Comments

Thanks.And happy New Year.

16 months ago

Nice post
Thanks for sharing

16 months ago

nice post.tjanks

16 months ago

great

16 months ago

Beautiful post

15 months ago

wonderful post and thanks 4 sharing

15 months ago

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15 months ago

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15 months ago

I liked this post. Thanks -))

12 months ago

good post ;-) very useful info

12 months ago

good post

12 months ago

Mmm life is not always a bed of roses..unless all things are perfect. But certain things to be done to have a better love and relationship for ever. nice post....thanks for sharing.

12 months ago

Thank you all for your contributions.I appreciate.

11 months ago

Really good post, nice work here

11 months ago

Interesting post good work
thanks for nice sharing...

10 months ago

great subject!

10 months ago

Nice post great thanks for sharing

9 months ago