free dating advice – when she says 'let's just be friends'

Posted June 29th, 2010 & filed under Articles.

sooner or later we’ve all heard it. yep, i’m talking about the dreaded “let’s just be friends” speech from a woman we’re dying to be oh-so-much-more with. there are no ifs-ands-or-buts about it. it sucks. but it doesn’t have to be the nail in the coffin. there is life after the “let’s be friends” speech, there will be opportunities to turn things around, but you have to handle things very carefully.
here’s what not to do:

beg her to reconsider. remember you are a man, even if a very young one. do everything possible to either date or merely sleep with her best friend. hang around her as much as possible with a hurt, hang dog expression.

here’s why. women have been known to change their minds – but only if they start to see the man in question in a new light. something about you currently just isn’t ring her chimes. but you can’t argue, beg or plead your way into her seeing you differently. what you can do is step back, reconsider and put a new game into play. let me lay out some basic strategy for you:

when you begin to understand women and have more success, you start to realize that most women are not the type that you’d be happy with long term.

make yourself scarce for now