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10 Simple Rules for Online Dating Success

In theory, online dating is the ideal way to meet your 'perfect match', yet a surprisingly small percentage of members are actually successful in finding what they seek online. There are, however, some simple guidelines, which if implemented, will greatly increase your chances of success in the online dating arena.

1. Firstly, it is important that you choose the ideal dating website to suit your particular interest. There are now many niche areas in online dating, for example sugardaddyhaven.com or sports-dating.com and you should use the search engines to find a selection of dating websites where you consider you are most likely to find your ideal date.

2. Once you have located websites in the niche area of online dating that suit you most, always visit a handful of them and look for the administrator contact link. Send an email to the admin of each website, asking how many full paying members they have in their database. A well administered dating website should reply to your email within a couple of hours. Admin is all important, and will be 24/7 on a quality dating site.

3. Never join a free dating website if you are serious about finding a mate.

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19 months ago

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18 months ago

Look Into Each Other's Eyes to Show Love
To convey honesty, commitment and comfort, when you're talking look directly into your partners eyes with a soft gaze for a couple of seconds.

Consider Appearance to Show Love
Your choice of color, clothing, hairstyles, and other factors affecting appearance are also considered a means of nonverbal communication. Wear an article of clothing in his or her favorite color to demonstrate physical attraction and to cultivate healthy passion. With these practical tips, you are ready for a loving relationship.

17 months ago

Six Tips for Finding Love Online
1.Move It Offline. “Don't make the Internet your exclusive dating venue and don't use it to shield you from life itself . Deploy it merely to find information and reach out and, on the first opportunity, log off and go out there to confront multidimensional reality with all its complexity and ambiguities. Do not use the Internet to fend off potential hurt: there is no growth without pain and no progress without experience.
2.Make Finding Love Like Job Searching. “Take time to research the facts about the person and spend time together and meet each other’s friends. Make your decision based on all the information and keep track of inconsistencies between words spoken and actions. Rule out anyone that has inconsistencies and vague backgrounds
3.Profiles Aren’t the Whole Story. “You must be careful not to fall in love with a profile instead of a person… watch for all the normal red flags online. If someone refuses to give you their number or can’t get together on weekends and so forth, they may very likely be married. If someone uses a misrepresentative photo, they have poor self-esteem and may very well be lying about other things, too. Walk away or address red flags head on, otherwise you will be hurt down the road.
4.Be Sexy, But Cautious. “Sexual banter exchanged via IM or text, as part of a well-rounded relationship, can be fun and lighthearted. But sex is the ultimate experience that is best shared in person rather than via web cam and IM. To ignore that key element – that most of us human beings crave touching and being touched by others that we care about – is to lose a key element of our humanity and joy. Be cautious with cyber sex and texting inappropriate messages. Certainly it’s important to understand that naked photos sent by phone after a night of drinking can end up all over campus three nights later.
5.Cool Down the Keyboard. “An online breakup can be as real and as painful as any real life relationship breakup. It may be tempting to try to quickly seek a replacement for the relationship, but it's important to take some time to process what went wrong. Thoughtfully consider what you would like to do differently before beginning a new relationship. The human heart seems to be engineered for love, so it's both natural and brave to want to try again. But take your time. Protect your fragile heart.
6.Never Give Up. “Sometimes it takes a while longer for some than it does for others [to find love], but don’t be discouraged by a few rejections; it happens to everyone. A rejection is never the end of the world, typically it will lead you to a better situation in the future, so don’t get discouraged!”

17 months ago

You know her (and dig who she is.)

Believe it or not, knowing her well counts for a lot. If you can remember your girlfriend’s favorite anything, bank on that. Bring her her favorite flowers, and she’ll swoon. Buy her a special edition copy of her favorite book, and you will be rewarded handsomely. Think of things she told you about her childhood—favorite places or activities—and inspire her inner child with a surprise trip down memory lane. There’s no need for a grand or expensive gesture here; it will mean a lot to her just to know that you’re paying attention to who she is, and that you love who she is enough to celebrate it with her.

17 months ago

You think of her during your off-hours.

If you’ve been with your girlfriend for a while, she probably assumes you forget about her as soon as she leaves your sight. She knows you’ve got a lot going on with work and family and friends, and she’s also aware that she’s kinda old news. That’s why a gesture that requires your attention during the “off-hours” goes a long way. It can be something as simple as calling her in the middle of your workday with a little “I was just thinking of you and wanted to see how your day was going.” Or you might decide to do it up big and surprise her with an elaborate night out that you planned on your own time. Whether the gesture is big or small, she’ll be psyched to know that she can still snag your attention even when she’s not in the room.

17 months ago

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17 months ago

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16 months ago

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4 months ago

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3 months ago