The life and World !

No matter how strange, but there are some "myths" that are able to make it impossible to cure the disease. Belief patterns, sometimes stronger than optimistic beliefs.

One of them - usually unconscious - mistaken belief that our lives determine the psychological trauma. Of course, it is impossible that the story of our personal potential emotional injuries are not affected, should not be able to move our bodies and our blood.

Many people, however, holds that life just a collection of psychological injuries, and feel helpless against them. In a tragic or traumatic experience after each new experience tend to have suffered injury through the prism to view. Past experiences convey everything that has happened in their lives. Every man who becomes part of their lives, warning that the painful events of the past will never be the same now. Their lives as a series of disasters and failures are described, which can not be changed because of past trauma stolen from them all the positive possibilities.

Although this is a sad, defeatist and self-limiting condition, but some people still draw great power from it, because they "allow" themselves with the minimum standards and limited responsibility for her life, providing ongoing support for themselves. Speak with bitterness and regret about their creative goals, which are not now, nor at other times can not be implemented. A support system is looking for a comfort zone for them, because they remain spiritual understanding regarding their wounds, and did not want them to leave behind the injury. And because the injured person can not expect anything from management, no religion can never fail.

Over the years passed, these people become accustomed to this strange power and self-defense, and even find it more difficult to change. Unfortunately, as you get older, the harder it is to overcome our problems and to develop a new outlook on life. The spiritual wound adherence to blow oneself, self-flagellation, because the mind is focused on recovery rather than weakness.

In fact, it is very difficult to discard from the belief that our lives are defined and psychological wounds can still be determined. This myth of the "usefulness" of a particularly difficult to give up, because it allows all the failures, or any blame someone else for lack of performance. This grip is only one way to escape, if we take more responsibility for the quality of our lives.

Instead felsóhajtanánk, if only we could learn more, enroll in a course or a school! Instead sóvárognánk, although only 25 are below the pound would be, start to move and change diet. Instead of having to endure at work to self-destructive behavior of others, go to an advocacy or positive communication training.

In fact, no matter how, just pick up the control of our destiny, even if they do not immediately see the results.

And now there are a few guiding questions for self-examination:

We manufacture excuses as to why they did not do more positive things in our lives?

Spiritual wounds méregetjük to others?

More power we feel when we believe in ourselves, others we have suffered major psychological trauma?

A single myth refuses to leave without a fight, but honestly if you want to heal, we have no choice as they fought the battle. If we are afraid of the level and függetlenségtől, you will find it difficult to maintain or restore health.