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IS IT LOVE???

by virgie .... on August 06, 2011

 

~~~INFATUATION VS LOVE~~~

by: Gordon O. Martinborough

Infatuation is ruled by feelings, but love's feelings are ruled by principle. In the field of infatuation, the feelings are in charge. But the problem is that our feelings are fickle. They change easily. Today I feel great, so I kiss her. Tomorrow I feel terrible, so I kick her. That's not love!

True love has feelings, tender feelings which are put in the human heart by a caring God. But love is not composed of feelings only. It is feeling plus principle.

One of the grandest description of love is found in Scripture. Here it is: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 

21 Comments

don't you dare "fall" in love, rather "climb" on to love...God bless u!!!

21 months ago

true Love! ^_^

21 months ago

Its's NOT LOVE. It's only a feeling that can easily change, like weather, sometimes it's sunny, sometimes its rainny, sometimes i't's warm, sometimes it's cold. The feeling is not constant. Am I correct????? How about the others, what is your opinion?

21 months ago

this great love.. 5 star

21 months ago

I miss you within these hours, this article is important for showing the differences between love and infatuation. By the way in all of my life I was not infatuate of anything, as I think no thing deserve to be infatuate as no thing is perfect in this life. But if we can say infatuation is a kind of admiration, admiration can take sometime and then by time everything became normal in your view. I have seen different people in my life some were good, some were bad, some you can deal with and take their time, but the one you really love him you cannot forget him and he remind in your mind for a long time. You think it is strange to love someone without dealing with, yes we can love some people and we cannot see him / her like the blinds who can love someone through his voice, it is not his voice, but it is really his thoughts, his mercy in dealing with the others, you love him but as you see he is special man means has a big and mercy heart, wise man, someone you can trust him on your life, someone you feel comfort with him, someone you like to call him and to tell him about your problem, someone knows how to listen, someone knows how to analyze your words and know what you think in, someone generous in his dealing with the others, not looking to his condition, but look to the human inside. Someone I love to share my life with, someone I wish to serve him and support him if he wants, someone I love to chat with and forget my time with, someone with me all of my time even in the dreams. Someone i accept him as he is…………………………..

21 months ago

Great post...thanks! *_*

20 months ago

wow great post...

20 months ago

tnx u for the great post

20 months ago

nice .....

19 months ago

one great love.... :)

19 months ago

lovely post:)

19 months ago

aha, first time to know what puppy love and grown up dog's love, oh, i mean mature and true love... nice one...

19 months ago

True Love it is... ^_^

18 months ago

great love

16 months ago

Great Post, great effort and awesomely written. 5****
good sharing , Thanks for your this type of post....
well done job!
nice work
keep working

16 months ago

Thanks for the comments friends...Am alive again!:)

16 months ago

very nice

15 months ago

this is a very clear illustration on the difference of love and infatuation

13 months ago

Love is a big word. It's caring, sharing, understanding, compromising and sacrificing. Both partners should have these qualities, both partners should endure all obstacles, take time to understand eachother, only then it can be called true love and this love may last forever.

12 months ago

Accepting oneanother as they are

12 months ago