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The rape of women, most people come to their minds. However, this is a bad habit. Everything "frame up" and did not really look around. In fact, many women have the opportunity to source and may have to learn to defend themselves against these. Women are always injuries, or talking about women, and much more attention should be paid to the men's wounds and injuries!

Why should guys know about rape?

Those who become victims often can not prevent the act, and even most of the initial fright, still follow the instructions of the harasser. Of course, we can learn self-defense, which you can use if we try to escape, or resort to other tricks, but these are the sülhetnek reversed if the professional is not enough, he plotted. In fact, most of the harassment, we will be alert all the tricks.

The things taught in schools and other places, or information by the boys against rape provide a terribly small and useless!

Yet we read little of the other side of the equation. Of the man who wants to be or have been - sexual harassment - it is. The man who knowingly or unknowingly allow sexual violence, and men who have become victims the same way. And if men do not know what they are to act when a situation like this - because of their problem can be, not just women - then a few things that can help in prevention.

However, it is difficult to accept that the perpetrators of rapes mostly men. A lot of organizations dealing with rape offenders behaviors, and with what to do, what not to do, and what he can do and what not.
Let's face it!

Unfortunately, almost every fourth woman in his life may be affected by this problem. Voice announcements based on their face and not accepting the 90% of cases occurred in women. Even if you can not directly környezetedbe! Probably not your mother or your sister, your aunt, your girlfriend is not nor will it boast.

Most of the victims is estimated to be 10% male, and 99% of perpetrators are male. The majority of crimes in the minors at risk. (Sexual harassment is often combined with pedophilia as well. So many very young boys and girls, I'd picked out. Of female offenders - even though the number is quite low - almost always pedophilia meet. So they are the stats are not included, rather than eliminate them from pedophiles to cases. )

 
The most common that the victims were teenagers, young adults, or child's age. This is the downside - for the benefit of the perpetrators - that almost 40% less the number of complaints. Many women are afraid for his honor. Men, rather than as a victim would consider each other beskatulyázzák the other, and is simply a victim may easily homosexual. Therefore, men or boys from a much lower number of complaints.
The victim is guilty?

Most sexual harassment specialist, agrees that the point men on each other due to the display of the young boys are easy prey. Because of social conditioning, much less the chance that the perpetrator lebukjon. However, the other thing is that our culture has a very bad beidegződésekkel. So often in society, people look less guilty of an offender than the victim himself.
Like the guy next door can be ...

Both can not be this hard to read. For men, because we know that almost all we make our offense. The women is because men in whom they trust, and love them. Yet at any moment become zaklatóvá potential. This is definitely scary. Maybe a hard thing, but it may be true that even the neighbor kids, the cousins ​​or best friends can be sexual harassment.
The male victim status

While the social and the women will not be able to understand what takes place in a male victim, they are very difficult to do with the subject. Unfortunately, these boys often feel very alone because no one dare to tell the bajukat.
Well, we understand, and if another circle of friends do not belong, with certainty that all people in the circle of friends.

9 Comments

very good post

10 months ago

very great

5 months ago