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Jealousy !

by Power User Christina Satma on January 04, 2013

The jealousy, illness. Hard or hardly curable. If someone genuinely has a "virus", and if neither one nor the other relationship can not overcome it - is incurable. The jealous man does not have a quiet moment, unconsciously zaklatottságáról partner can provide.


The false philosophy

Many believe that jealousy is natural. They argue that if you like your partner, you jealous of him, to keep a little control it. There is also the attitude that "my boyfriend is also my property," and should be kept as a house. But the objects are in contrast to the partner's personality, self-consciousness and free will. This prejudice is resisted. The jealousy and anxiety - which is really natural - can have the same jealousy and uralkodással, the request number.

The "virus"

The "virus" in the personality and nurture hidden. Egykeként who always gained everything, or larger family grew up, but you could always fight for what you want, day or who saw scenes of jealousy, almost natural, that is átcsempészi párkapcsolatába own experiences. Dragon is born.

The dragon's seven heads

1th Where were you? Where are you going? When will you be? - That is the constant questioning. This at first seems natural, if not angry coming out, like jealousy and anxiety can be a natural sign. Once you begin to go beyond the tolerance, then you konstatálhatjuk: born in the dragon's head.

2th You're lying! - A sure indication of the second head developing. No matter what you say partner, the interviewer does not believe it. Constant implies that the pair kicselezi, deceive, lie. Initially, accusatory, and begins to investigate, then call, leskelődni, ask questions. At this point it is not only absence of the head can be sure, but also that the head spewing fire.

3th What are you? - Primarily used in men with their partners, but ultimately there is equality. In this case the male partner will not allow the cut blouse, a skirt, make-up, lest the lady's presence affects others. Then convince his partner that this is basically the look is very disadvantageous to him. The second stage: very immoral.
According to the third degree: disgusting.

4th To look at it? - This obsession with women. They can not stand it if their partner is reversed after a shapely woman or any praise to comment. Say no to such a man was praising the partner, but my colleague about the store or Contact. This woman wanted to marry a blind, and her husband on a leash sétáltatná.

5th Who has been? - The inventory at the beginning of the relationship partner politely curious and assessed the situation to your partner what kind of contacts with whom he met how. Then use the rest of his life heard of information to combine. He is convinced that the partnership continues to date cseleit maintained and always ready to fight state. The partners had only one could tell, 'the red cloth, a taboo, and if the streets meet, must go through the other side of the road. The dragon has already developed ötfejűvé hook and even anger are mumbling.

6th Do what I want! - That the partner takes full control. The men kept their wives cage, older men for younger partners up to their golden cage, but this fact is not altered. Women assigned to the man so much time that you do not have time, mood and energy of the thought another woman. If you are clever and tricky to grow, this man does not notice. If coarser: even the collar and a pair of drapes.

7th I'll kill you! - This is the seventh dragon, spewing fire, screaming, and scary head. Can not be somebody else, even if mine is not (so), or (as I want). The majority of murders in the whole world, is still szerelemféltésből. The dragon is angry and blind rage. No brains, just passion.

Can lead to insanity

The desire to dominate possession and a dragon. It becomes an obsession after a while, often can lead to serious mental illness. The ideas revolve around a single theme, and trying to keep a pair of bondage, do not realize that you become addicted to the feeling.

What's the solution? If anyone recognizes the private "disease" for evidence of an urgent attempt to change it, because partners will be unbearable. If you can not?
The jealous man is deleted.
Other, and a more tolerant should be selected instead.

9 Comments

nice post.

8 months ago

very great

5 months ago

Good job, The first thing is to recognize it but it is very difficult to stop being jealous, you feel threatened by any woman and less than all, so it creates distrust, and not in the couple if not the same, do not know how to please her lover, and likes to think that all but one. Also if you know you have a friendship with a woman and she behaves like that can only be friends with him, seems to have other interests of friendship, we seem to want to replace is an uphill battle and lost.

4 months ago