Women, Secret, s-e-x, erotic ,relationships....

What can not the other, it does not hurt. Old, but it is increasingly voiced mondásról. I suppose many people know. I can not stand this sentence, because - I think - this philosophy is a lie. However, as all too commonly, thought worthy of a little over elelmélkedni.


The ring of blindness?

Many people think - especially among women - that their marriage the couple is also chained themselves permanently, and the wedding ring is symbolic of the clamp, the endless symbol of togetherness.



They feel that their mate will now report to duty of every thought, every step, and even on the street does not look like the other female specimens. Many women want a husband who is blind eunuch on the street, at home, however, attack dogs, whose only male attraction he can control and you can give life.

Liberty v captivity

Even more people believe that marriage is rabigájába bent their heads (as to why?) Human lose their freedom forever. Of course, if your marriage will be enslaved, or one party proves enslaver of ethnic minorities in the future, then it is a chance that someone wants to get rid of.

If we think that some will maintain the commitment, you will be limits to freedom, but only ones that are an absolute necessity. Most of the faithful observance of party, whether the invasion is now finally about to give up. But I think it is not so! The flirt everyone eternal life are required!


The freedom you enjoy in most, if not the boundaries of the other party, but everyone is determined by its own self.



Almost in self-defense ...

Comes the saying goes ...: What can not the other, it does not hurt!
Thus, a relationship full of must have secrets? With hidden stories? Unspoken desires? What is it that does not know about the other? Obviously, such a thing if he knew what the other would feel pain.
Because it covers some things a secret, which is not fair. And who is this saying is often quoted, the philosophical basis for the secrets, lies and tries to accept his philosophy.

No, but why should something inherently act, which is the first time, we know that can hurt the other? This is morally, than the pre-planned murder. Cumulative offenses, for which a greater penalty than usual.

Freedom and / or open marriage

Not many are those who were able to achieve the much talked-about open marriage. This actually means that the spouses of each other's consent, with the knowledge to cheat each other, let the other be in love, the experience is also expected to report. One condition: the pair always return to the nest.

I do not know whether to expect betrayal at all, is what the other knows? The already approved a misstep. Many licensed misstep after misstep, however, the curiosity persists, the confidentiality of the intimacy of the tiny hiding his excitement.

You might think you have found the solution! Now is the secret of eternal marriage! But no, it does not! It is rare that the two sides at the same time you fancy kikacsintásra.



While one of the other half in love with someone with enthusiasm, the other is sure to hurt, since he automatically becomes neglected. Then the same, just vice versa. So always hurts someone. And as long as this game is played, as long as you are not apathetic or emotionally, and there the marriage.

Returning birds nest

It is also misleading, moral weakness of the blanket view of life is that it is not the important thing is that the male-to act on the nest, but to always go back there!
Long ago, our grandmothers that have been formulated: in spite of Smith entails crooked ways, but only because his wife is called Kovácsnénak!

And I can only say: so what? Today, no one would be happy to Kovácsné cheated, humiliated Kovács, Kovács lie.
The returning bird nest, inequality based on the priority rights of man emphasized the theory of the last century.
The couple will live in open marriage, if the law provided for both parties. But unfortunately this is not only open a few lives, but often windy.

Like where the door is always open.