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Bad news is that unfortunately does not exist. An illusion, a dream, a physical reality, it did not totally love can be perfect, but a flesh and blood people are not.

The way we grow as men - women relationships we see around us a sample, determined by the choices. As a child, the family holds a prism in front of our eyes, but to see and choose. It was only later in life when we realize - if at all realize - that this vision of how distorted the pattern of your parents.

As for the unconscious, is an exception. Jung says that when an inner situation is not aware, your fate will be displayed as beyond our control. Watching ourselves without you never know what kind of energy work in us, and how it pulled the veil of illusion to the world that know us.

Unfounded is the notion that there is somewhere in the Magic Real, who will fix up your life, a soul mate who will build that long ago destroyed in us, who will be there when you need it, who invented the thoughts and know what they want and meets your needs.

These features would be really a good parent who protects us. Recognition can be shocking, but it really is the earliest parent-child experiences shape us a template that what we are, what about the other and how the relationship between two people.

No sane person would say that "I want to repeat the childhood emotional wounds." But often we do. I love it to another, as a friend! We are looking for a friend, even if new mental injury.

Every relationship begins projection. Even if you are telling that "there is, when one simply knows that the other is true." That "the other in an instant to be recognized, especially the one whom we love." Only the invisible energy such complexes can hire a man. They are like an iceberg, which is speeding toward the ship.

Each of us carries to the other nemről an archetype, a "mold" that our lives unconsciously built up in us. In this way it can fit beautifully into the arrival of love. Unfortunately, we tend to disproportionately magnify the love and regarded as a form of salvation. This only leads to despair and an empty sense cooking, when you finally feleszmélünk délibábos képzelgéseinkből. The problems would then begin in a few months when the archetype of the real man behind the exit. Pulls the curtain, and you should see the other one is in a state of nature.

The real relationship, all taken on responsibilities, and realities of beauty then begin. And continues until the two people on the move, as long as keep you from somewhere to somewhere.

We all have a choice to a love relationship to sleep, or waking toward e. A few relationships, you can use emotional crutches, to relieve our internal insecurity, self-cure zavarainkra looking up, or we can try to be the bastion of stability, compared to the volatility of life. But such standing water deeper sleep sink into our consciousness over time. But if we wake up, you can learn through our relationships to the difficulties we proceed to use tool.

The relationship will end if we are no longer road if we're hamster wheel, you just repeat ourselves, if the cue konfliktusainkban there, and everyone knows exactly how to respond to the other. If this happens, the connection dies. You may of course also make use of a dead, but why? It blocks all types of fresh start. We must therefore address the question of whether there is still dealing with? The same place we are, or have separated our way?

The couple relationship is like a four legged table. The first leg of the intellect. Lifestyle the two of us, ideas, views must be near each other. It is important that we talk about professional and acceptance.
The second leg is love. When we are pleased that the other is in the world.
The third leg of sexuality. The fourth leg in the material. Must agree to money viszonyulásunkban, related in our value system.
If any leg is wrong, then the table döcögni begins to capsize, collapse.

6 Comments

very good, I like a lot

6 months ago

very great

5 months ago