ROMANCE,LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

Whether or not you know it, there might just be another person coming between you and your love. You could be in a many-years strong marriage and feel very committed to your mate. We're here to tell you that there could actually be another person standing in the way of your relationship being as close and connected as it could be.

Don't worry, we aren't talking about an affair here. We're referring to the "other person" you might tend to compare you mate to. This "other person" could be the person you
remember your partner being years ago, or it could be a different man or woman from a past relationship. You may not even be aware that you are doing this comparing and
evaluating.

People have this tendency to create disappointment for themselves by focusing on a past that may not even be accurate! Even if it is, what it comes down to is this, if you frequently compare your partner-or yourself-to past memories of him/her or you, you are only setting yourself up to feel bad. There is nothing wrong with enjoying happy
memories of past times of connection, but troubles are created when those memories become measuring sticks against which you judge where you are right now.

Everyone changes. It's not only a fact of life, it's also a wonderful thing. If none of us ever changed,