ROMANCE,LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

Here are a few of my key ideas:

1. ATTRACTION Isn’t A Choice.
2. Women don’t feel ATTRACTION for "nice" guys who kiss up to them.
3. If you don’t GET how ATTRACTION works, then it almost doesn’t matter WHAT you do. Nothing will work.
4. If you DO get how ATTRACTION works, then you can do almost ANYTHING, and it will work for you.

Let’s take ’em one at a time...

Attraction Isn’t A Choice

Women don’t "choose" to feel ATTRACTION.

BANG! It just happens.

And let me ask you something.

Do you think that the mechanism that causes women to feel ATTRACTION... the one that has evolved over millions of years... before language, before MTV, before you learned how to kiss women’s asses... is LOGICAL?

Here’s a hint:

No.

The bottom line is that if you interact with a woman long enough that she forms an "impression" of you, and she doesn’t "feel it" for you, then you’re done.

It’s over.

And no amount of chasing her around, buying her things, and being "nice" is going to do the trick.

It’s NOT a CHOICE, man!

Women Don’t Feel Attraction For "Nice" Guys Who Kiss Up To Them

Remember the guy above who asked the question "How can you be too nice?"

Answer:

You already know... DUH.

Now I’m going to ask YOU a question...

WHY are you BEING nice in the FIRST place?

Right, right.

It’s because you WANT something.

"Oh, no", you argue...

"It’s because I’m a NICE GUY."

Or maybe you think that you were born this way... to be "nice".

Or maybe you’ve even convinced yourself that it’s the "right" thing to do.

Well, it’s really pretty funny that the answer is staring you right in the face.

You keep proving to yourself over and over and OVER again that NICE DOESN’T WORK.

By the way, I love it when guys write in to me and say "I don’t want to use the things you teach because I don’t like the idea of MANIPULATING women."

Then I ask "Do you buy women dinner, or take them out?"

Of course, the answer is always "Yes".

I ask "Why?"

But I already know the answer...

IT’S TO MANIPULATE WOMEN.

Yep. And then the same guy says "Yea, but THAT’S DIFFERENT".

OK, before I get too far off track here, let’s just summarize and say that it is EASY to be "too nice".

And it REALLY screws up your chances with women when you are.

Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.