The Best Relationship Advice EVER

Seriously, one of the more ridiculous pieces of advice I hear spun out to women with frightening regularity is “Play hard to get.” I’m certain you’ve heard these gems as well:

“Keep him guessing.”

“Don’t immediately return his call.”

“Be a mystery.”

Where does this stuff come from? I won’t claim to speak for every guy, but I’m confident in saying that I speak for the majority of guys when it comes to this topic. Well intentioned girlfriends, they’re great…they mean well…but they probably don’t know what they’re talking about. They – and by proxy you – have been bamboozled! Hoodwinked!

The whole, “playing hard to get” thing is archaic, 19th century nonsense slung around by prudish parents and the “Millionaire Matchmaker” Patti Stanger. This line of thinking certainly has its place …..in the 1800’s. 

Most reasonably grown men have no interest