So many graduates wrote to tell me how his book really enhanced what I had taught them about men in my workshop. I realize how affirming it is for women to hear about men - from a man! Whenever I used to put on co-ed workshops, it was fun to observe all the women turn to the guys to see if what I'm saying is for real!

You would have laughed if you saw me watching the show as I belted out many "Woo Hoo's!" every time he answered questions from an audience of 300 women. Nothing makes me happier when I get to see a man on a major show like Oprah supporting the very same points of view I'm teaching to all my participants!

Below, I'm going to partner with Harvey a little bit here and list off 4 points he made on the show that are invaluable tips