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Should Same-Sex Marriages be Legalized?

 

Overview/Background

Traditionally in this country, marriage has been defined as a religious & legal commitment between a man and woman, as well as the ultimate expression of love. Homosexual relationships are increasingly gaining acceptance in this country; however, these couples have not been permitted to marry. Some states have considered a new form of commitment called a "civil union", which essentially is marriage without using the word "marriage". Many politicians have said they are against gay marriage but think it should be left up to the states to decide. However, the "full faith and credit" clause of the Constitution says that if one state makes a law, other states must recognize it. Thus, if one state allows a gay marriage and that couple moves to another state, the other state must recognize that marriage. This in effect allows one state to make same-sex marriage legal in the entire country. Many politicians are calling for amendments to their state constitution or the U.S. Constitution. Many areas of the country such as San Francisco have performed marriage ceremonies in defiance of the law. Lost in all the legal battles and political maneuvering is the basic question "Should we allow gay couples to legally marry?"

Yes

  1. Denying them is a violation of religious freedom (civil and religious marriages are two separate institutions). The main reason for denying marriage to gay couples is that all major religions consider homosexuality a sin; however, the First Amendment of the Constitution clearly states that a person's religious views or lack thereof must be protected. Marriage by the state is a secular activity; the government cannot start making laws just because a religion says they should. What's next, should we make taking the Lord's name in vain a criminal activity because Christians consider it a breaking of a commandment?

  2. Marriage benefits (such as joint ownership, medical decision-making capacity) should be available to all couples. Marriage is more than a legal status. It affects many things in society such as tax filing status, joint ownership of property, insurance benefits, and agency law. It affects critical medical decisions. For example, if one member of a gay couple that has been together for 20 years gets critically ill, visitation may not even be allowed since the other isn't considered a "spouse or immediate family member". Also, critical medical decisions must often be made when one person is incapacitated; e.g. should a certain surgery be done or not? It is completely unfair to deny these privileges to people because their relationship doesn't fit the state's definition of one.

  3. Homosexuality is an accepted lifestyle nowadays with most evidence strongly supporting biological causation. For too long homosexuality has been considered a form of "deviant sexual behavior". Those making these accusations should examine the history books and the psychological research. Throughout our history going all the way back to ancient Greece, homosexual relationships have existed. The term "lesbian" comes from a Greek island called "Lesbos" where many such couples lived. An overwhelming amount of research has been done showing that homosexuality has a biological causation; not a genetic one, but a biological one. The easiest way to think of it is as a hormonal switch that gets thrown one way or the other. And if you think about it, it makes logical

6 Comments

Great researched topic. You have done a great job. This is a very controversial subject that is for sure.... A great well researched and thought out post Eriena....

13 months ago

I am planning to write about this topic when I saw this post on my homepage. This is one of the hottest issues now a days after Manny Pacquiao had said to be quoting verses from the bible. Anyway, here is my stand. As a Catholic and a Filipina I am not favor in legalizing gay marriage. I have lots of gay friends that I love and my best friend is also gay but will I never be a part in agreeing into this marriage. MARRIAGE is a sacred covenant, an institution established by God himself which is intended for man and woman. And we cannot change that.

13 months ago

Thank you Gaji Kuru, Carmen Janis, Monirul Islam, Fareha Iqbal and Jade Michelle. Marriage to me has religious and traditional values which have been known as a union between man and woman. I hope that US government can find a new form for their legal union other than 'marriage'.

13 months ago

nice post :)))))

12 months ago

Thank you Gaspar Andrei.

12 months ago

Thank you Red Rose.

12 months ago