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An affair by text message?

by Senator Dave A on September 04, 2011

Hi, I need a bit of advice here.  I'm really good friends with my ex boyfriend who is now engaged to someone else.  They've been together for over a year now.  He and I got back in touch by text (he instigated it) about 4 months ago.  We work at the same place so have seen and chatted in work over the last few years anyway although it was very awkward when he first got engaged.

35 Comments

the reality nowadays, text can do better way

20 months ago



it is really difficult to figure out the real intentions especially on the part of the man

20 months ago


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20 months ago


very nice post.

20 months ago

i like the story, very interesting...
( in my own opinion )...somehow i understand the both parties...but...i don't think its a good relationship for both of them. they are still relying on their past memories. i see good intentions but a lot of bad intentions..

20 months ago

to hard
"Knowing others is intelligence;
knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength;
mastering yourself is true power.

20 months ago

hmmm, it´s only your decision. only you know him and what you feel so...

20 months ago

Well she should not answer to texts. I guess she is answering because she feel good that way. Fantasy in the air!

20 months ago

text affairs are not that so serious....

20 months ago

very very good !

20 months ago

sounds so strange but a nice one

20 months ago

love your post dave :)

20 months ago

Yes, it is affair, Dave...you must be stop it for whatever reason. The past just keep on memory only. Dont try to reach it coz it will hurt you again, and again......this is hard for anybody who loves her partner. Thank to share it, Dave

20 months ago

wow great comfort to her. and nice complement

20 months ago

That one they call it lust. they both sinning.... 27 “YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.(Matthew 5:27 - 28)

20 months ago

It definitely is a no no. Both parties are weak in the area of their lusting after each other and are playing to their weaknesses. It will all head to disaster and many will be hurt. If they want to remain as friends, they need to stop texting each other to remain friends, otherwise they will have to cut off their friendship.

20 months ago

This is not right and not fair.There's no foundation for a strong relationship in this one .Make the right choice now.Stand up, open your eyes, shake loose and if it's necessary than break loose,but if you don't want to regret it later than stop it now.From what i've read i know it's not healthy and it will not be in the future. Don't play with fire.

20 months ago

Your problem is very common,, and i,d just go with the flow and keep your friendship and love..I have the same problem,, you just can,t shut your life off to people that you love and care..It,s not as easy as what some of these people are saying..Love is like water-- it will always find it,s own level no matter where you put..Follow Jesus like me..and love everyone..

20 months ago

hahaha.. great answer bob.. thanks

20 months ago

very interesting story, and she expressed very honestly...

20 months ago

it happen now a days..very interesting story

20 months ago

nice post

20 months ago

nice post

19 months ago

nice blog

19 months ago

hahaha wow.. amazing story to amazing comments.. read it

18 months ago

AFFAIRS START WITH INTIMACY AT WORK.

18 months ago

wow nice Jerome

16 months ago

Great Post, great effort and awesomely written. 5****
good sharing , Thanks for your this type of post....
well done job!
nice work
keep working

16 months ago