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Well, I think it's partially due to women's personalities.... some women are just naturally jealous of other women, or not trusting enough, or too jugmental. Women who are naturally the jealous type are going to be leery of you from the get go, so obviously anything you do just won't be enough. Women who aren't trusting enough are going to always be searching for an ulterior motive, and some will get the idea in their head that if they hurt you before you hurt them, then they have the upper hand. And the ones that are too judgmental are, in part, too close-minded to really give you a chance to seriously befriend them. And then there are the women in this world that are all of these things.... these are the ones that will be the most conniving and backstabbing. Also, these women tend to have more male friends than female ones, it's just a given. I'm not saying that just because they have more male friends than female ones, that they have any of these personality traits, but the ones I have come across in my experience, have few female friends, or any friends for that matter. I guess that should be a heads up to me. lol

But, there are women in this world, who are none of these, or at the very least, whatever their issue is, it's minimal. These are the people that can develop lasting friendships with other women. These types of women can basically befriend anybody. But like I said, I'm only saying all this based off of my experience so far. It's not an exact science. lol

its just a shame that these kind of women exist in this world it truely makes me sad. I was always taught to give people a chance and accept people for who they are and not for what they can give you. I normally try to be a positive influence on someone isntead of always trying to find ways to bring someone else down ya know? it gets to the point where sometimes dealing with other women like that makes you seem like you were in your very own little soap opera or a dramedy lol

yeah, I know what you mean.... I've been in that situation before with a girl I know.... at first, I tried to ignore it and just give this person the benefit of the doubt, but after awhile, that just seemed so exhausting because it was happening so often with her and now.... I just kinda gave up on the friendship.... it just didn't seem worth it anymore. But, that's life... you win some, you lose some.

And I agree... it is a shame that these women act this way. I'm the type of person that could get along with everyone, even if I don't particularly like them. And if there isn't an obvious common interest to seal a bond right off the bat, I still continue to find one because I believe that everyone can get along with anyone else.... it's just that some relationships come naturally while others just need a little work. But, both parties have to be putting forth effort. But everyone getting along is, regrettably, unrealistic.... I hope this will someday change.

i really hope so too but my question is is it a learned behavior to treat someone that way or just due to their environment? or is it instictlively in themto act that way?

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Thanks charlotte.

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