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Phase One: Your Short Term Survival Guide: How to Survive Infidelity Aftershocks.

The goal in the short term is crisis management, not healing. Healing begins to start in phase II which could be several weeks or months down the road. For now, the focus is on trying not to make things worse. But the chances of your surviving infidelity down the road are likely to be strongly affected by decisions you make about how to deal with things over the next month or two.

This phase of the program covers topics such as

What emotions each partner may expect to feel
How both partners can deal with obsessive thinking about the infidelity
How to deal with the emotional wounds and mood swings
How to end the affair relationship
How to deal with questions about the infidelity that are likely to come up
How to live with one another without doing further damage to your relationship
How to begin to rebuild trust

Phase Two: How Did We Get Here?

When you enter into a committed relationship, one of the last things you expect is to be trying to survive infidelity . How did something that started out feeling so good end up feeling so horrible and scary?

Phase two will help you to understand why, out of all the people in the world, you fell in love with this person and the most common reasons relationships typically fall on hard times. This section will help you to have a deeper understanding of your relationship than ever before. It will show you show of the pitfalls many couples fall into and how to begin to dig yourselves out of them.



Phase Three: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Communication but Were Afraid to Ask.

Over the years I’ve worked with thousands of couples and when I ask what they think the problem is virtually everyone answers “communication”. And while you are in a crisis, such as trying to survive infidelity, good communications skills are vital.

Phase three will show you how to look at communication in a new light. It will help you to understand just why its so hard to hear and feel heard and show you exactly how to communicate and see each other in a completely different light.



Phase Four: Reconnecting: Having the Relationship of Your Dreams.

Over the last 20 years or so there has been an explosion of scientific research on what the factors are that cause some couples to stay together and others to fall apart. Believe it or not, there are actually some very simple things that have been scientifically proven to make you fall in love all over again. But this time it’s a different kind of love – one that is built on a strong foundation and that will last. Its much easier than you ever imagined to have the relationship of your dreams, even after (perhaps especially after) surviving infidelity. Phase four of my surviving infidelity system will show you how to have this kind of relationship.

Infidelity is a problem facing increasingly more couples, experts even suggesting that this power is part of human nature and tends to become a very common practice. Statistics show that 15% of women and 25% of married men have extramarital sexual affair already.

Top hiding places Whenever one partner becomes more hidden than the other is a warning: something is wrong in the relationship. Whether it's received phone calls and stealthily, or exit during the week that did not previously exist but later became part of the program, they are considered signs of infidelity, partner spending more time in the company of another person and taking as of the time the couple. Solution specialists: direct confrontation between partners. Thus, by highlighting this problem there are likely to find a solution. In cases of no confidence in the statements partner can even check historic telephone call (although this is an extreme solution that specialists do not recommend to be used frequently