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It's well known that worry, stress, and anxiety contribute negatively to premature ejaculation. In addition to the degeneration of the feeling of control, when a man is "uptight," his lover will usually perceive it. If she then starts to stress about his anxiety, she is prone to have issues with her own relaxation, arousal, or orgasm. Stress andanxiety in the bedroom is contagious and it is a significant cause of lovers avoiding stressful sexual activities. After all, sex is supposed to be pleasurable and relaxing - not unsatisfying and tense.

A person who believes that sustained sexual activity is the hallmark of sexual success, will most likely begin worrying frantically about his uncontrollable climaxes. The real or imagined pressure to perform both long and well is much more intense if his lover seems to be also expecting exemplary sexual