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How To Kiss Well

by Anoop K on October 29, 2010

A guy who loves kissing explains why making out is special and how to deal with a bad kisser.

I am an aficionado of the kiss. No other act is so simple and so intimate. The light suction, the flick of the lip, the playful nibble, the deep advance and retreat of the tongue—a good kiss is like jazz, an improvisation of melodies, flirtatious staccatos, and passionate brassy crescendos. A good kiss is a rapport enacted physically, like se x, but more erotic.

Many women don't realize this. I've been surprised at how many treat kissing like it really is "first base," just a step towards something better. And when I meet such women, I face a dilemma, like being a music lover who discovers that a new friend has bad taste. Do you break it off, or do you educate? And if you educate, how do you give lessons without giving offense?

My first encounter with such a kisser ended badly. Julie and I were 14, at the conclusion of our second date. She tilted her head, put her open lips to mine, and, using a combination of wetness and suction, established airlock. Then her tongue invaded. I imagined an eel or a water-dwelling snake, or perhaps a tapeworm, darting towards my throat, slithering around, and then withdrawing, only to strike again immediately. I tried to block her with my tongue, but she swirled and pushed me back. I could not breathe. Then I began to gag reflexively. Be an insider. Get the YourTango newsletter.

Being fourteen has its disadvantages; Julie had not learned the cardinal rule of kissing: it's a conversation. There's nothing inherently wrong with an all-out tongue invasion, but if your interlocutor hasn't asked for it, then you're more scary than se xy. I didn't even call Julie to break up with her, figuring that if a girl had literally made me gag, she would probably get the message. Read: My One Great Love...Wasn't

I soon realized, however, that my modest adolescent social status didn't leave me much room to be choosy. Plus, it turned out that even some awesome girls were terrible at kissing. I would have to teach them.

I took my instructional inspiration from my first girlfriend, Christine—my gold standard when it comes to kissing. Our first kiss had been, to a boy on a first date, a small miracle. I had been terribly nervous as we approached her front door. My hands had begun to sweat.

57 Comments

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27 months ago

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26 months ago

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20 months ago

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20 months ago

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20 months ago

good , i like french kiss

20 months ago

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20 months ago

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19 months ago

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19 months ago

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18 months ago

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18 months ago

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18 months ago

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18 months ago

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18 months ago

i like kiss...thnx for sharing

18 months ago

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18 months ago

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18 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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17 months ago

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However small it is,

16 months ago

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16 months ago

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16 months ago

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15 months ago

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15 months ago

A great kisser makes you feel like a great kisser.
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15 months ago

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15 months ago

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14 months ago

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14 months ago

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12 months ago

nice info & nice kiss

12 months ago

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12 months ago

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12 months ago

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12 months ago