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The Truth About Relationship Expectations

Blaming others for the pain we feel each time someone fails to live up to our expectations is no different than burning our tongue on coffee that's too hot to swallow, and then calling our cup an idiot! -Guy Finley

Unfulfilled expectations always cause problems.

Having expectations in our culture is expected.

19 Comments

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16 months ago

Thankk you for the comment Shazi. Ther should be no expectations in arelationship. i believe that if you are in love with someone or you develop love for someone and it is mutual that expectations are not needed. See you fall in love with someone because of who they are. i would never want to change my boyfriend. He qualities and traits are why I fell in love with him.

I do however, understand that are going to be little things like for exapmle bed making or putting the toilet paper back on a roll that need to change. But those are the things that people adjust to living with each other part of the adventure sort of speak.. much love Lorri

16 months ago

I had one thing to keep in mind that I get from this blog.."no expectations, fewer disappointment!"...I agree with this..You don't need to expect a lot from your partner or from your relationship cause it may kill the realtionship or you will suffer emotionally when your expectations failed..great sharing..:))

13 months ago

I couldn't agree more with this blog and with you vian, through personal experience..expectations dis appoints u...and causes a lot of emotions.. while reading this blog lots of thoughts playing in my mind and I just have to say yeah! you're right! thanks for sharing..

13 months ago

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13 months ago

EXCELLENT SHARE LORRI...... SOME RELATIONSHIPS DO REVOLVE AROUND UNFULFILLED EXPECTATION...BUT IT IS FOR THAT INDIVIDUAL NOT TO FEEL THE DISAPPOINMENT OF THAT....EXCELLENT POST

13 months ago

Thank you everyone..I have been reading through the comments here and I agree with all of you..it is never good to expect too much from any relationship..I for one try my best not have too high of expectations..I have learned early in life that you can be totally disappointed and sometimes that is hard to get over..:) much love to you all for the lovely comments..:)

13 months ago

Thank you dont' cry..xxx

13 months ago

Marvelous

13 months ago

Thank you....Catherine

13 months ago

nice thought... and guide for the good relation...

12 months ago

good post...

12 months ago

I enjoyed reading your post. It was good!

11 months ago

this great post we take some lessons about relationship
nice sharing Lori

9 months ago

its great keep it up

7 months ago