Sincere Relationships

Despite the fact that my job requires me to make about a thousand decisions a day, when it comes to my personal life, I can never make up my mind. Even as I write this, there is a lamp in my living room that still has the tag on it. I bought it last week, but I want the option to take it back.

I realize that when applied to relationships, this trait may seem unlikable. So let me clarify: I am not incapable of falling head over heels for someone. I've simply learned to accept that deep inside, I'll never feel totally sure. For me, the more pertinent question has become: Do I feel sure enough? Oddly, this all came into focus recently, when I appeared for