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very nice, complete and meaNINGFUL

practical, useful,

Very honest, but I find it all a little calculating..

I know you can't speak for all women, as this is a very general observation, but why is it all about the woman..

How about the males point of view?

I think the woman of today are playing a very dangerous game, and that men are getting caught up in issues that don't always make sense..

For instance women don't always know what they want, and even when they get it, they still assume it their right to turn round and say, 'It's my right to change my mind'..

Leaving the man who may already compromised his actions, to be totally weak and left feeling betrayed etc.

I see a relationship as a two street, and there needs to be much more balance in such articles, unless of course this is some soft version of feminism, or women having control..

I am by no means angry at women, just at some of the advise I hear other women sharing with each other without questioning..

Where has the spirituality of women gone to, and how is this energy being sustained, and related to their male partner, that the question I would like to ask..

For me women are the gateway to our future, but just like fire, the beauty a woman possesses can either be used to heal or destroy.. This choice has much to do with influence, past experience, and expectations..

As a man that loves and respects women, I will stand up for my lady, and would expect her to do the same for having her own mind, and not to be one who always want to have things her own way.. All said with Love..

And thanks for the insight..

Thank you for your thoughts...it was well said. I commend you for expressing yourself.

smart..........

HI, even though well said it seems a world were total control is to be handed over to the women which i think is very unfair to say the least. Are the feelings of men not material? Women should be mindful they just cant get everything.

Yes,ur advice is so useful and good,this woman also should think his man also have thoughts and feelings . He is also thinking my woman should understand my feelings and act accordingly.so both side have their own expectations,this should understand both man and woman. I think it would be better, think what u have done for the satisfaction of your friend rather than expect some thing.

Nice issue you had really deft into,but why is it that men should be the scared cow,all in the name of relationship.I think it should be a reciprocal thing....

The relationship between men and women should be logical, natural and harmonious. Thank you for explaining the words used by women to express themselves. I must confess it is the most difficult language to learn and understand, because you say something and mean something else.

I have got some thing out of your advice and I usually used to hear this words but never knew what they really meant in women but now I have known and I believe it will be very helpful.
Thank you for every thing you wrote.

that was good of you to let us know what women mean when they say things, congratulations, keep it up. i really appreciate. next time come up with something relating to the language of men.

it realy useful.............good attempt......

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its very clear

ARLENE:TRY THIS ONE:

IF US GUYS TRY TO FLATTER U TOO MUCH, THEY ARE OUT TO GET MORE THAN THEY DESEERVE,
HOWEVER, THERE ARE SOME GUYS(LIKE MYSELF), WHO'RE NOT EVEN THE BEST LOOK'N GUYS
(MEANING A FOX), THAT MIGHT HAVE A HEART OF GOLD, BUT SOME LADIES, ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE $$$ SITUATION, OR, WHAT HE HAS IN PANTS, WHETHER IT'S LONG, BIG , OR EVEN SHORT.

THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR THE CHARACTER, OR, WHAT TYPE OF PERSON HE REALLY IS(I'LL GIVE U AN EXAMPLE): SUCH AS: 1. THE BEST LOOKING GUY U SEE ON THE STREET-U COUILD SAY:
"OMG!" HE'S A DEFINATE FOX!!!" BUT U FIND OUT, AFTER HOOKING UP W/HIM, U WIND UP ON THE STEVE WILCOS TALK SHOW, CLAIMING HE BEAT U, THROWS U AGAINST THE WALL, +, HAS A DRINKING, AND DRUG PROBLEM, AND U WANT OUT. 2. U SEE A MUCH OLDER GENTLEMAN...ON THE BEACH, OR, MAYBE IN TOWN SOMEWHERE, NOT THE BEST LOOKING IN THE WORLD, NOT A FOX, SO TP SPEAK, HE'S IN HIS 40's-50's, ALL ALONE, W/NOONE TO TALK TO, LONESOME, SO TO SPEAK...U GO OVER TO TALK TO HIM, HE TURNS OUT TO BE A CHRISTIAN, THE TYPE OF PERSON, WHO'LL ACCEPT U AS U ARE(PRESENT TENSE), HE TALKS TO U ABOUT THE LORD, AND
U ASK HIM, CAN U GO TO CHURCH W/HIM? OF COURSE, HE'LL SAY YES, AND, SOONER, OR LATER, U MEET UP AGAIN, AND U REMEMBER THE EXPEERIENCE U HAD WHEN THE 2 OF U, WENT TO CHURCH TOGETHER, AND, U ASK HIM IF U CAN GO AGAIN WITH HIM? HE SAYS AGAIN, THEN SOONER, OR, LATER, THE 2 OF U HIT IT OFF, MEANING HE ACCEPTS U FOR WHAT U ARE, AND U ACCEPT HIM FOR WHAT HE IS. A FRIENDSHIP BEGINS, THEN THE 2 OF U ARE DATING, AND 1/2 WAY IN UR RELATIONSHIP, HE ASKS U TO MARRY HIM. AND, HOPEFULLY, THE BOTH OF U, ARE SERIOUS ENOUGH, W/EACH OTHER, TO BE MARRIED TO ONE ANOTHER.

THE BOTH OF U ARE NOW MARRIED TO ONE ANOTHER, AND, BELIEVE IT OR NOT, ARE HAPPY W/
EACH OTHER, AND U LIVE OUT UR LIVES FOREVER.

ARLENE: IS THIS WHAT UR GETTING'LOOKOING FOR PERSONALLY, FOR, ACTUALLY, I WAS TALKING ABOUT ME, THE THING IS, I'M NOT MARRIED YET, AND I'M 'STILL LOOKING, IF U GET MY MEANING.

IF U LIKE WHAT I'VE SAID, LEAVE ME A MESSAGE ON FB(W/A PROFILE, SO I CAN EMAIL U BACK),
AND, I'LL GIVE U MY EMAIL ADDRESS PRIVATELY.

hi i love this .thanks

please dear can one chat through the mobile phone ??????



thanks

TRUE.....

great post dear

Men just say what they mean. With women you need a guide book and a map and an interpreter.

nice content good sharing

yes yall are strange ppl.. But it can be fun tring fine out what's really on female mind.Well so far by new wife and seem be doing ok. Know from been in combat 3 times , ive have trouble being close anyone and trusting ppl is hard thing do .But try keep open mind

great post.. Both men and women have unique personality.. we only need good communication

While the difference between communication styles is undenyable, there is something that can be done about it. I am a firm believer in straight talk. Speak your mind. I learned that talking "Code" gets you nowhere. It just creates frustration and drama. Sorry ladies if you don't agree. I just know that clear communication works best. There's a lot to be said, but not on someone's post. I'm afraid though that guys will find it to be too much work trying to descifer our "language" and they may give up alltogether. Just my humble opinion based on my own experience :-) men respond best to straight talk.
If we are the ones seeking a lasting relationship, I'm afraid it falls to us to learn how they think....and work with their nature rather than against it. Sorry Arlene.. I got carried away ..

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nice post...thanks for sharing..

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