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 SPICE UP YOUR APPROACH TO DATING

SPICE Up Your Approach To Dating

Asking someone out is never easy. But, recent research in "Split-Second Persuasion" by Kevin Dutton can help. Dutton (2011) studied masters of persuasion to uncover the components behind their success. He then distilled those components down into 5 principles; his SPICE model (standing for Simplicity, Perceived self-interest, Incongruity, Confidence, and Empathy). The SPICE model can help you sell a car, make a new friend, or even get a date. By SPICE-ing up your approach toward a potential partner, you can stand out from the pack, be more persuasive, and have a better chance of getting the date you want.

41 Comments

I haven't been on a date in forever Lol. but yeah I would definitly take the time to make it shine. spice it up. a little goes a long way.

24 months ago

Do you do things to SPICE up your dating life?

24 months ago

how are you doing angel eyes princess you r truly beautiful i hope everything is fine i write poetry an all my own love songs on face book , to every angel there is a dream of all the beauty she has ever seen in her heart an back again this lovely angel shall always have wings for in her eyes her beauty is there given from god to always share the kindest thoughts i say to you is standing in the mirror in front of you heavenly angel so sweet an so pure with all of your love forever more. thank u kindly princess an my thoughts are always with you

24 months ago

Sounds good, but I'm not quite convinced. I do agree that it will increase the chances for getting the date though...

24 months ago

nice post

24 months ago

hello friend i am following this blog k

24 months ago

Try it out and let me know if it works....

24 months ago

Tell what you feel..

18 months ago

nice post..

17 months ago

VERY VERY VERY NICE

17 months ago

Thanks! I hope you've been able to SPICE up your love life...

17 months ago

Gr8 Post----------------THANKS FOR SHARING

16 months ago

Good post once they have what want, get bore look for another.

16 months ago

OW THESE ARE AMAZING work....VERY nice work i like it...
GRAT SHARING.......... THANK YOU

16 months ago

hmm nice post

thanks for sharing

16 months ago

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16 months ago

nice posting

16 months ago

great post..........thanks for sharing........great work,dear .........keep it up....

15 months ago

very nice and great post thx for sharing..................

15 months ago

thank you for sharing

10 months ago

like

9 months ago

nice post

2 months ago

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1 month ago