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* Arlene * helps shelters for abused women and children.

Is it really “first comes love, then comes marriage”? Or can it sometimes be first comes FRIENDSHIP, love, then marriage? Both instances can be relatable. Because sometimes starting off a relationship as friends and then eventually moving forward into a loving, intimate relationship, is the best bet.

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awesome , i love it , yours are sweet words, not complicated, i have read it and get the idea.

34 months ago

Hello dear,

Your views are quite interesting but I think you may fail in getting husband as you are thinking now. For example, You may start friendship with someone and for say one year you will observe him and like his qualities. Then you get married to him. After 4 or 5 years of marriage life your choices may be change and his qualities may be change which lead to your frustration. Then your marriage will be a disaster.

I will explain you in calculated way so that you understand better. Now, in your views you need a husband with good qualities (say) 100. (1. colour 2. personality 3. weight 4. behaviour 5. style 6 approach towards you..... so on included 68. style of kissing 69. sex timing 70. caring after sex 71 demanding odd things...so on upto 100)
You try to get a man with those 100 good qualities, rather you can say your interested qualities in him. You get 100 boy friends and none of them have such 100 qualities which you want in them. some may have 50 some 60 and some may have 90 also. Then after considerable thinking, you compromise for 10 qualities and select a man with 90 good qualities. After 4 years of marriage, you may not like the quality no 1 and change preference of colour. You may change your preference of quality no. 69 and 70 ....like that....if you revaluate him once again, only 60 qualities may match. And some of the qualities may change over a period. Then frustration starts.

Secondly, the man you like, may have similar interests and he may be in search of a girl with different 100 qualities, and you might be with 80 such qualities. After marriage, those qualities may down to 50. What he will think off?

What my intention to explain you is that you should love him including his negetive qualities. Dont try to change his negative qualities. If you love him and his negative qualities, you never feel the betrayal of your marriage and from those negative qualities you can enjoy life much more....

god bless you

34 months ago

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34 months ago

well its true

34 months ago

I was married for 24 years to a wonderful woman who was my best friend & lover. I fell in love with this woman all over again, everyday. This kept my marriage alive for many years. However what brings you together, does'nt always keep you together. In Life, nothing is for sure. You can only count on yourself. Love well

34 months ago

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34 months ago

actual i like it

34 months ago

am not married yet but i will expect soon beautiful and good character lady

34 months ago

am not married yet but i will expect soon beautiful and good character lady

34 months ago

it was a through life story me, i wasnt marry but i pray may God give me good and blessed wife

34 months ago

i belive all can be true,, but 1 i can say.. is that if u don`t ask GOD 2 give u a wife,, i mean wat beutifull he have made 4 u!!!! all about love will not be 100%,, so first obey the commadment`s the u will see the light in the darknessssssssssssssssssssssssss

34 months ago

Love is very worst

34 months ago

no hablo ingles les ruego que me manden en castellano por favor gracias y dios los bendigan

34 months ago

Ok right... I also Love U.

34 months ago

whooo.....thats cooll....

34 months ago

it is good to have some people like you to enlighten others with wonderful
and unique tips

34 months ago

i need lover nice

34 months ago

it okey

34 months ago

hi

34 months ago

hi simply superb it heals my heart

34 months ago

wow................................

34 months ago

BK

34 months ago

The text really touched my heart . But this is my little prayer to God ,please give me success in my search for a partner as you did to issac,in the name of Jesus AMEN

34 months ago

TANEKS

34 months ago

60% right

34 months ago

Hi
I m verry happy for your advice God bless you

34 months ago

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34 months ago

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34 months ago

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34 months ago

hi
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34 months ago

Yes Yes YEs......, Sometimes i know relationship may Grow and Grow to the higher steps like u "Linda" try to express, but have u ever experienced something to the other way round coz once up on a time i love ma enemy and who become ma Fiance . Here the story she & i are a kinda ov person who heat each other to death. She heat me too much I do the some thing to. Even when i saw her i dont feel anything rather putting ma self in anger position coz she is around there. But accidentally she & i appointed in our best friends marriage ceremony as a bride & groom . We spent the whole day at the wedding day just pretending as if nothing happen b/n us till the ceremony come in to the end. You know what, sometimes we conclude that with out having a clue we heat people or believe she or he isnt our type on contrary soon or later we learn our conclusion is wrong like same thing happen b/n me and ma fiance. From that day both ov us show some respect to each other and there is a little concern as well. Finally after a month later i ask her to be ma GF and she seriously lough at me. I gave her some times to think about and i raised same question for the second time again a month a go . But this time she is confused and putting her self in dilemma. Soon i notice some clue ov feelings for me. I deiced to pusher her to say yes and finally she said yes we spent five years together with out quarrel just for a single day. So , some times u dont need to follow the whole process for Gud marriage coz some times love leads the way wiz out knowing how it starts grow .

34 months ago

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33 months ago

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33 months ago

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33 months ago

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33 months ago

these words are very touchig, am always praying to God to give me a brother, father and friend as husband.

33 months ago

im a 28 yer old man need some lovens

33 months ago

yes im agree with you!!!

33 months ago

wooooooooi iam from indonesia iam dont spaeixinx inglis ooooor uu spiking indonesia
woooooooooi aku dri indonesia aku ga tau inglis kamu tau bahasa indonesia kalo bsa jawab.
wooooooi ana ma arif ingglisi ana iji min indonesia laken inti arif kalam indonesia.

33 months ago

hallo h r u

33 months ago

My Dear
Where did get such an experience at such a young age?
However you are right and wish you good luck.

33 months ago

hii....i am looking u in my dream.....

33 months ago


These are good things to know.

33 months ago

Hi good , I like it

33 months ago

HI.I CAN NOT SPEAK ENGLISH.I AM IRANI(MASHHAD).I NEED BEST FRIEND GERL.BYE

33 months ago

ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I LOVE GIRLS. OK?

33 months ago

It depends on your perception about love.

33 months ago

nice 1

33 months ago

Okay I like you
I stay in Jakarta Indonesia
if you agrea please come, I wating you always

33 months ago

Okay I like you
I stay in Jakarta Indonesia
if you agrea please come, I wating you always

33 months ago