Through a child's Eyes

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nice blog. it hit home...i went through all of these things with my divorce....trying to decide what is best for the children. in the end, it was better for the children that we separated rather than stay together in a bad marriage. but i have seen it end up the other way many times. nice job!

Thank you :-) I started to write this a couple days ago but of course I tried to use the fanbox search engine and it froze the page so now I know why I have always opened a new window lol I hope everyone has a very blessed day!

Jenny I wish Duncan's kids would ahve read this instead of leaving nasty comments..very good my friend 5 stars..:)

Lorri- Yes very true it may have made them understand a bit more.

Umair- Thank you

Thanks for the comments - I am Back- I believe that as parents we are teaching our children how to have relationships so if as a Mother if your children watch their father teacher their mother badly they are learning from that. If they constantly hear name calling they are learning from that we teach our kids how to have a relationship. Just like if they see their mother always screaming at the father, they begin to believe that is how its supposed to be.
As some one that had a parent that was in abusive relationships I can tell you because of what I witnessed I used to fight dirty when I say that I mean I used to name call and say things just to hurt whoever I was dating at the time finally one day I woke up and realized that wasn't how it was supposed to be and I had to change and I can tell you it wasn't easy to hold my tongue to stop and think for a moment before I say something just so I can evaluate if it should be said...

Good post Jenny - I guess it's also hard to break up a family, but most people do not want to live from hand to mouth. If the mother hasn't work in ages, she would be wondering how to survive if she keeps the kids. It's all a messy situation really and so much to work through. I agree with you that it's dysfunctional for a family to stay together if there is fighting, name calling, etc. Life is challenging.

very nice sissy !! strong wordings n crystal clear expressions !!!!!!!! simply wonderful !! tc sissy !!!

Thanks for all the comments everyone!

great post Jenny

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nice posting

parents should set as a good example to their children...........................

NICE POSTING

Spot on with this one. Children learn by example and it is never healthy for anyone involved especially if there are drugs and alcohol in the family along with the violence. Great story.

Amen sista! I chose to leave for my kids and me. It was crazy to stay living with the insanity and letting my kids think that it was normal.

Amen sista! I chose to leave for my kids and me. It was crazy to stay living with the insanity and letting my kids think that it was normal.

I totally agree with this post. Children learn what they see, absolutely.

nice post thanks for sharing

Very true! Our priority should be our children! They should grow following their parents example of love and respect....when there's none of this....what's the sense? many parents think that they are going to hurt their children by getting separated but they don't realize that they are already hurting them!

We also need more stay at home mom's as it was many moons ago. Our children need to be on top of our list of importance as your blog tells us. Very nice blog.