Secret Thoughts, Desires, Dating

Calling a Girl for the First Time? Part 3

Wait at least a day and call her again. If she answers, don’t make a big deal about the fact that she hasn’t returned any of your messages. Just proceed to converse with her as you’ll learn to do so in the upcoming paragraphs, and forget about her failing to return your messages the first two times.

Remember your job is to date her and make her feel good, not make her wrong and feel bad. However if this third phone call goes to voice mail again it’s best to leave a message like this for her;

“Hi Stacey,…its Steve. I felt some chemistry with you last Saturday when we met…so that’s why I asked for your number. I was hoping to take you out on Thursday but you haven’t responded to any of the messages I’ve left you,…so,….this is the last time I’m going to call you….because I don’t want to bother you if you’re not interested…. If you’d like to call me back and chat that’d be great….but if you don’t,… I won’t call you anymore. Hope I hear from you soon….and if I don’t….it was nice to meet you Stacey….bye.

Again, make sure you thoroughly rehearse the message so it comes out natural. Use a polite tone throughout the entire message. You’d be surprised how many girls will call you back after you leave this message.

It shows your interested because it’s the third message you’ve left her and it also tells her that it’s the last time you’re going to call her. Some women love men who don’t give up and they will only be flattered by your persistence.

It also lets them know that you’re no longer available should they fail to call you back again. You’re not making her wrong throughout the message; you’re just clearly and politely stating that you won’t call her anymore. Once some women know this, you’re value will go up and they will be inclined to call you.

But, do not call her again. There is no need for you to chase women who are clearly not interested….move on and don’t take it personally. For all you know she might have started seeing her ex boyfriend again….it’s not your problem. Now let’s learn how to handle the first call when she does answer the call.