Secret Thoughts, Desires, Dating

How do you work things out in a relationship to make it healthy and happy for you?

Relation Problem of Miss Jennifer D'Souza. Just read what she has to say below. She needs a solution to her problem: 

Her Story is as follows:

So i keep expecting a lot of things to happen in this relationship. I keep going to meet this person everytime. I take the initiative all the time to call but he makes time to talk to me and meet me.

He gives love care but yet i am not satisfied because he never asks me when i will meet him again and i need to tell him all on that day that i will meet him he agrees but i feel there is no concern whether i meet him or not it feels like he is trying to be polite as i am coming from far to meet him but he has not taken the initiative to meet me he is talkitive but he has nothing to say when i say something in my life he says "hey chill thats okay" he has nothing to ask me i ask him more.

He has never texted me and said hey i wanna meet you today where will you be today it feels like an appointment to meet him with his permission where he says ok i will wait but him not asking me to meet me. I dunoo if its an insecurity or something this sadens me.

Few Suggestions for her problems are as follows:

Suggestion 1:

I just wanna say 4 words

*TRUST as much as possible(but not blindly)

*LOVE as much as you can(but not beyond limit)

*EXPECT as less as a needle point(coz xpectations alwayz hurt)

*& last generate a outsatanding understanding.

& thn forget all faltu talks & aftr tht chill your mind & soul.

Suggestion 2: 

For a healthy and loving relation you have to say these all things to him frankly to make him understand your feelings.... than only you can make your relation beautiful... don't hesitate to talk to him on this topic.. if he really loves you and understand you than he will definately understand this also...

Suggestion 3: 

You are too sensitive , and too possessive. You have not tested him by not informing about the next meeting.Since you are making all the schedule for him,why should he bother about it.Further,he knew that any way you will take care of these little things

My advice to you :

1) next time you meet him and do not make plan for the subsequent date.

2) Test him by not calling him say for a week.