If we could press a magic button that would instantly help you find the love of your life, we would push a button that would help you “trade places.” In other words, we’d help you put yourself in your partner’s shoes. We’d help you become a professional at empathy.

Why? Because it’s at the heart of every healthy relationship. And if you want to find the love of your life, you want to be sure your match is an expert at trading places. And we promise you this, the best way to find a partner who does just that is to be that kind of a catch. The more you practice empathy, the more you draw a fellow empathizer to you.