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surviving him

by Kimberlee Kelly on June 24, 2012

Surviving him.....

Have you suddenly found yourself in a relationship with someone who believes it’s all about him? I have and did. Are you in love with someone who is overly critical, demeaning and even cruel? Believe me I understand Ive been there, Do you feel as though you can do nothing right in his eyes? Im with you sister. Are you constantly made to feel guilty when you have done nothing wrong? I just went threw this and can tell you it sucks to feel guilt when you have done nothing wrong at all. Are you banging your head against the wall trying to figure out how your relationship went from a fairy-tale to a train-wreck over night? This is the story of my last relationship.

Stop!!!!!Dont even think about going back to him......

You have done NOTHING wrong! You may be in a relationship with a Narcissist and the first step is to Understand It. You are on the Path Forward Now!

Step 1 – Understand It

 

We educate ourselves on the personality of a Narcissist.

Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is like being on a roller-coaster ride that never ends. One moment, you feel loved, adored and cherished. The next, you feel devalued, discarded and abused. A Narcissist engages in "crazy-making" behavior in order to make you feel as though you are losing your mind. He wants to keep you guessing and doubting yourself at all times. This way we become dependent on him and he is in control. Once we learn to see the Narcissist for the person he really is, we are finally able to free ourselves.

We realize we do not need this person in our lives to feel whole and complete. We were whole and complete before this person entered our lives and we will be whole and complete once we end our relationship with this person. It is the Narcissist who is preventing us from being truly happy. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!

 

Step 2 – Get It Out

 

We find an outlet to share and express our emotions.

We absolutely must process our feelings

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