My Dating Ideas

The question of what defines the perfect relationship need not be that complicated. This type of relationship is defined, simply, as one in which two people who want the same things from the relationship are paired with each other.

That doesn't mean that what defines a perfect relationship is that both love to play baseball, and drink margaritas. Nor does it mean that both love mystery novels and horror movies. What it does mean is that both enter the relationship for the same level of commitment and agreeing on the major issues.

A woman who wants to get married and have three kids is not going to have the perfect relationship with someone who thinks the most commitment he'll ever make is moving in together. Nor is this type of relationship one in which they both want marriage but only one of them wants to have children.