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I lost my father 11years ago. I had so many trials in my life on how I should cope with life with a single parent support.  I know how it is to lose a love one because I have been there.

Mine came so painfully. My father was a wonderful man and he is someone that stays home with mother, my siblings and I all through after his hard day work. He was loved and respected by his siblings, even the oldest of them, and has been a great dispute resolver of his entire family.

I lost my father to a religious conflict in which he did not participate. I was at school, a boarding school, when this sad event occurred. The family was attacked and he had to sacrifice for his family he vowed to protect. He had to go out of the house and stood firmly on his comment that he was home alone.  He was stabbed with a long knife, as he felt to the ground, the other family members watched from the window and couldn’t do anything. The killers had a controversial argument on a decision to burn the house down. Miraculously some of them said they should waste time when they have more to kill before the forces get to the area. It was so painful.

When the forces came, they took my family away to a secured area in which they stayed for two weeks. Here comes another pain. Before my mother could identify the body of my father for a befitting burial, the bodies of all dead victims were carried away for a mass burial.

The last time a saw my father was the day he dropped me at school and we both waved goodbye as we departed. This rings everyday in my mind. It is like he was lost without a trace.

Grieving has been a part of

42 Comments

so sad.

24 months ago

This is really sad. I feel so sorry for you. Tear came down of my eyes

24 months ago

really great!...sad ...but..the inspiring words...you shared with us is very nice,,,,thanks!

24 months ago

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24 months ago

very sad.

24 months ago

Very inspiring Rabin. .After the tragic experience that happened in your life you become strong to overcome all those pain. I admire you for being a strong person..5 stars for that. ^_^

24 months ago

very touching, i hope fron that cause make u be a better n stronger. 5*

24 months ago


oooooooooo sad.........

24 months ago

this is really sad ... shouldnt happen to any one ... was spell bound ...

23 months ago

realy great

23 months ago

So sad ; Too bad !

23 months ago

Losing a loved one is never easy to deal with. We each must grieve in our own time and way! The healing process can take a long time too. Awesome post! I am sorry for your loss my friend.

23 months ago

it so sad,.. thanks for sharing

23 months ago

so sad. thanks for sharing

23 months ago

This is to say thank you to all my fans

23 months ago

thanks for commiserating with me.

23 months ago

I am so sorry for your loss rabin ....Its very hard to be without a father

22 months ago

oh, dear... loosing someone it's difficult, but, loosing him like that, in this way, it is very sad!

22 months ago

So sad and I feel sorry for you loss. I am really touched by your story. My prayers for you and your family. God Bless

22 months ago

thank to all of you that commiserate with me.

22 months ago

uhuhuhuh.............really sad

22 months ago

it's sad to experienced such terrible lose of your father... You are strong to survived the pain and keep life going. I hope you getting well from the grief... thanks for letting me read your post

22 months ago

thank to call.

22 months ago

Life is teaching us to be stronger , Life needs strong people!

Nice post !

22 months ago

nice post

22 months ago

sad.............. but info is.................

22 months ago

thanks

22 months ago

It is all so true, But was a great idea.

22 months ago

NICE

22 months ago

nice and buaty

21 months ago

nice

21 months ago