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Handling a Break Up

by ***Iftikhar *** on August 10, 2011

Break ups, I dread them, not for myself, but for the sake of my friends who are in a relationship. Believe it or not, I have cried more than a couple of my friends who were in a relationship and broke up with their respective boy friends. Sounds funny, but it is true. Nevertheless, one thing I am positive about is that handling a break up is difficult. But then, it is all in your mind. If you accept it positively and stay cool about it, then it would not be as troublesome as you might think it to be. Hence, let me first tell you something about how to go about a relationship break up.

How to Break Up Gracefully

No Un' pleasantries Please: None of you wanted this unfortunate thing to happen, still you are at this juncture. So keep the affair as less traumatic as it can be. Having this experience to be minimally unpleasant is the first thing you do.

Mr or Mrs. Too Frank: During the conversation or the rendezvous be honest with each other, but do not over do the forthrightness. You would rather abstain from telling the person you are breaking up with how bad her or she was in the relationship. Further, avoid blaming each other for things that went wrong. All said and done, come on you had some great times, how can you hurt him or her?

The D-day: Please, whatever you do, when you decide to break up, do not part ways on a day which was important for you as a couple or on a holiday. This would be a real mean thing to do.

4 Comments

NICE

22 months ago

thanks :-)

22 months ago

Lovely post....Very good work...Keep it up....Thanks 4 sharing....

19 months ago

Thanks for your comments:)

17 months ago