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By Paul Evans

 

Sometimes you don’t have time for a long formula or to sit down and work through a process. There are times where you need confidence fast, instant confidence. Here are 25 ways to get an instant boost of confidence.

1. Compliments

Be on the listen out, not just look out, but listen out for compliments. Compliments reveal the value others see in you.

2. Successes

Log all your successes. You need to write those down. Whether it’s the first webpage you completed; first song you played on the guitar, or the first million you made in business.

Keep a record of your successes, great and small, and review them regularly.

3. Failure

That’s right, failure can actually boost your confidence because it is so beneficial to fail and determine what is different.

A study was done of pottery students. One section of the class was told, “You have got to make this pot perfectly. You get one chance.”

The another side of the class was told, “You get to make a pot, but you get to fail as many times as you want. You don’t have to make a perfect pot. You just make a pot.”