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They say that love is beautiful and perfect.
But when you’re in love with a girl who just doesn’t seem to be interested in you, love can feel like the worst experience ever.
It’s so frustrating, isn’t it?
I mean, you’re such a great guy and yet she’s interested in other guys who don’t seem even half as good as you!
Ever been there?
Well, I have.
I’ve been there plenty of times and I’ve learnt a few important lessons on that path too.
How to get over a girl who doesn’t like you
During my college years, I’ve been in love with quite a few girls.
And every now and then, a girl that I liked would speak nicely to me, get friendly with me and then crush my heart when I ask her to go out with me.
I mean, these girls did say I was a nice guy.
But almost always, when I did work up the courage to ask a girl out on a date, they would appear shocked or embarrassed and tell me that they never looked at me *that way*. Gosh, I hated that feeling.
And once the proposal ends, the awkwardness begins. Things were never the same again with the girls I asked out. A few girls I liked stayed as distant friends, while other girls started avoiding me.
The girls I liked moved on, and I was the one stuck with a heartbreak that I had to deal with. It was so traumatic at times, because I never really got to know what was wrong with me or what was better with the other guys.
Where I went wrong in my pursuit of a girlfriend
As guys, all of us have epic egos. We think we’re all perfect definitions of the male species. But more often than not, many of us are flawed. So you think you’re a great guy. But does the world feel the same about you?
Would you consider yourself as one of the *coolest guys on the block*, be it in college or in office? Does everyone else look up at you and your friends as the most popular guys around? When I was in college, I always thought my friends and I were all that, but now when I look back at my college photos, I can see that I was a nice guy, but I was not as popular or good looking as I assumed I was.
Sometimes, all of us need a reality check. If a girl you’ve fallen for likes another guy, don’t try convincing yourself that the world sucks because you’re a better guy. Try to see the other guy’s good side and see in what ways he’s better than you.
Sometimes we just have no choice
In a completely different scenario, sometimes you just have no say if a girl doesn’t like you. There was this girl I liked a lot and she liked me too. We were friends, and borderline sex buddies. We used to have phone sex now and then, and even make out after a movie or a friendly date, but we weren’t having sex yet. This continued for a few months and I started falling madly in love with her. At about the same time, she met another guy whom she started getting close to.
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