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Top 20 Reasons for Divorce that Couples Overlook

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Divorce doesn’t happen by accident. It builds up slowly when people overlook the things that matter most. Read the top reasons for divorce here.

 

Divorce isn’t a bubble that’s ready to burst.

Most people assume that a divorce is a shocker, something that comes right out of the blue when it is least expected.

Perhaps, to family and friends, that may be the case.

But to the couple involved, it’s something they would have seen all along.

Most of us make the grave error of taking the things that matter most for granted.

And a marriage that’s taken for granted has a good chance of ending in divorce.

Reasons for divorce and why couples never notice it

Divorce almost never happens all of a sudden.

Problems constantly build up over time, and at some point the inevitable happens. Or one more accusation or error pushes the ball downhill and then, everything else comes crashing through the foundation of the marriage.

Listen to me when I say this, your marriage has a great chance of a happy ending. But it’s all in the hands of the couple that are married together.

For a long time, I’ve been startled by the divorce crisis in the United States. Many of my own friends have now given up on ever marrying because the statistics in our country seem to make the whole marriage thing sound so scary and worthless.

But things don’t have to go the scary way. Yes, it’s not easy. But nothing ever is easy, is it? It’s your passion and interest in something that makes it easy.

At times, divorce may be inevitable. But work towards a better marriage, see the signs when things get bad and put in the effort to bring the relationship back into the happy place. It’ll make all the difference.

Top reasons for divorce in new marriages

Are you in a marriage that’s less than three years old? Well, then you’re probably going to experience any of these little signs that may not seem like such a big deal to begin with.

You may still be infatuated by each other or may be too deep in mad love to see any signs of a bad marriage. But if you care to take a peep and find one of these signs, take a good look and work on it before it’s too late.

#1 You think you’re too good. Have you ever felt like you’re too good for your partner? Or do you think you deserve someone better than your spouse? It may seem like a petty and funny thought now, but dissatisfaction over time will trick you into making mistakes you may end up regretting. Your spouse may have a lot of great qualities too, only if you can get your head out of the clouds and take a good look at them.

68 Comments

Very interesting and informative post. I like your blog thanks sadaqat bhai for sharing such a thought.

13 months ago

thanks for sharing

13 months ago

thank you!

13 months ago

nice tips

13 months ago

its really sad to end a relatonship with divorce especially when there are kids involved. Nevertheless, a relationship that no longer feel the importance of each other is better to end like a friend than be the worst enemy. thanks for the share.....

13 months ago

Thanks Juanita

6 months ago

nice tips ..

12 months ago

very good post and informative. Thanks for sharing.

12 months ago

Thanks Jane for visit

7 months ago

yeah. Some of these happened to me and I just left and went away.

12 months ago

Thanks

7 months ago

Thanks a lot friends

12 months ago

This is so touching dear friends but really. thanx for sharing

6 months ago

Thanks Mubiru for your visit and nice comments

6 months ago

Great information.

6 months ago

Thanks Ayuba

6 months ago

its very sad..many marriages were not sucessfull,,,,resulting into divorce..and the children will suffer the consequences..a newly married couple mostly dreaming of a long and lasting relationship...a happy home to live in...but unexpectedly..due to several circumstances..a couple would come up into break up....a family is a small institution that plays a vital role in our society. because a strong soiety begins from a strong family...however the Bible has perfect guidelines on how marriage becomes suceessful...MARRIAGE is sacred ...its a lifetime commitment...

6 months ago

Thanks Nora for your visit and great comments

6 months ago

your much welcome////

6 months ago

Thanks Nora

6 months ago

Thanks friends

6 months ago

welcome a fan box.

6 months ago

Thanks a lot Nirosh Kumara for your visit

6 months ago

Good post,thanks

6 months ago

Thanks Emma

6 months ago

A lot of divorced couples were from couples who were not sure of committing to marriage before they even went to the altar. They were just immature in my mind.

6 months ago

Thanks Carol jane for your visit and submit nice comments

6 months ago

you're welcome! :)

6 months ago

good post
thanks

6 months ago

Thanks Abdul Kader for your visit

6 months ago

Thanks a lot

6 months ago

very good post. Nothing can guarantee your marriage, but
both spouses have to build together their lifestyle,

6 months ago

Thanks Corina Chirila for your visit

6 months ago

Thanks

6 months ago

good post & thanks for information

6 months ago

Thanks Joji

6 months ago

It take two to tango to make marriage Last
Thanks for the Post ! :)

6 months ago

You well come Rey and thanks for visit

6 months ago

all marriage is not Perfect. But we tried hard to win that marriage. I think the best is Pray ....Thanks for the Post :)

6 months ago

Yes.... thanks Ladydi for your visit

6 months ago

your welcome new friend :)

6 months ago

nice

6 months ago

Thanks

6 months ago

every thing written in this blog is true.......thanks ..in divorce always the looser are the children.......

5 months ago

Thanks Zoubeida for your visit

5 months ago

Someone told me that a huge amount of divorces occur today because of INFERTILITY. That's right, when a married couple has trouble having a baby, it is causing so much stress that people are getting divorced over it.

5 months ago

Thanks Kristin

5 months ago

Someone told me that a huge amount of divorces occur today because of INFERTILITY. That's right, when a married couple has trouble having a baby, it is causing so much stress that people are getting divorced over it.

5 months ago

you are right and thanks for visiting Kristin Perry

5 months ago

It is so sad for a couple to divorce especially if they have still little children, it would be painful their children to bear, it will become a " Broken Family ". That is why getting married is not like a spoonful of rice you will swallow, its not that easy. For this reason the couple must be sure of themselves, they should be willing to sacrifice, and have more patience with each other. However living in without getting married might not be advisable, there is morality at stake. Your post Sadaqat is one of the very interesting topic that is brought out here in Fan box I guess, very good, we have to face the fact.

5 months ago

Yes i agree with you David and thanks for visit and post a nice comments

5 months ago

wow I stayed with my mouth open by reading this, is right all. But the differences between the two of marriage does not mean they do not love anymore.

5 months ago

Thanks Ana Belen

5 months ago

You are welcome Sadaqat, thanks for appreciating my comments and more power to you.

5 months ago

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5 months ago

Thanks Daria for visit

5 months ago

If sales of marriage last number was quite small, couples or resemnandu finding solutions that the situation now, those involved in such a relationship considered likely that life is too short to suffer in silence.
Even if it seems the easiest solution must not forget that divorce can leave deep traces in the lives of two spouses: fear of failure and Failure inchegarii another family in the future, depression, fall into various vices designed to "alleviate" pain caused, job loss etc.

5 months ago

yes I agree .............. and thanks for visit

5 months ago

When G-d is absent with in the marriage, what do couples expect? Selfishness rules!

4 months ago