It’s a hard pill to swallow, but it’s true: Just because a man has sex with a woman doesn’t mean that he has even spent a second thinking whether or not he wants to be with her or have a relationship in the future.

So if you’re thinking that sleeping with a man will make him “see your worth”, you’re dead wrong.

It is not the physical attraction a man feels for a woman - or getting close to her physically - that makes a man really “feel it” for you and want more.

Yet almost every woman I know equates sex with a relationship.

The Morning After

Let’s say you slept with a guy, and then he got distant. You’re probably thinking he played around with you and was not being honest about what he was looking for.

“You’ve gotta stop banking on what you think a relationship could be - and what I call a man’s “future potential” - and start opening your eyes to what is.”

What do you think of  Maslow's hierarchy of needs?:

 

Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a theory in psychology, proposed by Abraham Maslow in his 1943 paper "A Theory of Human Motivation."

Maslow subsequently extended the idea to include his observations of humans' innate curiosity. His theories parallel many other theories of human developmental psychology, all of which focus on describing the stages of growth in humans.

Maslow use the terms Physiological, Safety, Belongingness and Love, Esteem, and Self-Actualization needs to describe the pattern that human motivations generally move through.

(Maslow studied what he called exemplary people such as Albert Einstein, rather than mentally ill or neurotic people, writing that "the study of crippled, stunted, immature, and unhealthy specimens can yield only a cripple psychology and a cripple philosophy.")

**Maslow studied the healthiest 1% of the college student population.**

Maslow's theory was fully expressed in his 1954 book Motivation and Personality.

Hierarchy

Maslow's hierarchy of needs is often portrayed in the shape of a pyramid, with the largest and most fundamental levels of needs at the bottom, and the need for self-actualization at the top.

While the pyramid has become the de facto way to represent the hierarchy, Maslow himself NEVER used a pyramid to describe these levels in ANY of his writings on the subject! But it is a suitable way to explain the theory.

The most fundamental and basic four layers of the pyramid contain what Maslow called "deficiency needs" or "d-needs": esteem, friendship and love, security, and physical needs. With the exception of the most fundamental (physiological) needs, if these "deficiency needs" are not met, the body gives no physical indication but the individual feels anxious and tense.

Maslow's theory suggests that the most basic level of needs must be met before the individual will strongly desire (or focus motivation upon) the secondary or higher level needs.

Maslow also coined the term Metamotivation to describe the motivation of people who go beyond the scope of the basic needs and strive for constant betterment.

Metamotivated people are driven by B-needs (Being Needs), instead of deficiency needs (D-Needs).

The human mind and brain are complex and have parallel processes running at the same time, so many different motivations from different levels of Maslow's pyramid usually occur at the SAME time.

Maslow was clear about speaking of these levels and their satisfaction in terms such as "relative" and "general" and "primarily", and says that the human organism is "dominated" by a certain need, rather than saying that the individual is "only" focused on a certain need at any given time.

So Maslow acknowledges that many different levels of motivation are likely to be going on in a human all at ONCE.

His focus in discussing the hierarchy was to identify the basic types of motivations, and the order that they generally progress as lower needs are reasonably well met.

Physiological needs

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Mythomania, more commonly known as compulsive lying, is a disorder that affects many Americans every year. Characterized by almost constant lying, the person affected by it can be confusing to deal with. Education about compulsive lying, however, is the key to overcoming the misconceptions surrounding this issue and helping those

It is great to be in love and in love even though we respect each other and have lots of rights on our beloved, but often many girls find that they have offended their guy but many a times cannot understand why the man is hurt. There are quite few things which usually guys with self respect wouldn’t like to hear.

1. Mommy’s boys:

Most guys are mommy’s boys but you don’t have to rub it in. After all she is the one gave him birth, fed him on her milk and brought him up and made him everything he is today. She made him the guy you fell in love with, so how can you think that he would totally ignore her and be your pet. if you have a tendency to suicide then it is better to jump of the airplane without parachute rather than telling your boy he is momma’s boy. Why bring his mother in conversation where it is not required. Most guys are touchy about their mothers as you are about your parents. No guy would like to be told that he is momma’s boy and yet even though every girl knows it, but hardly any girl leaves a chance to remind her guy that he is one. One of the biggest mistakes in a relationship!

2. Your getting bald:

Most guys loose hair with age and these days even in youth the hairlines are receeding. How would you feel if he tells you hey fatso watch your tummy and

What is the big deal about Man Cave's?? What do you think of this person's opinion?

Lately I've been wondering: Don't Man Caves -- those spaces we give our husbands to store the stuff we won't allow in the rest of the house -- say more about us than they do about our husbands?

You know what I'm talking about, right? Man Caves are those designated rooms in which we let our spouses hang the baseball pennants, jerseys, and posters they rescued from their childhood bedrooms. Maybe they display their stamp or beer-bottle collections, or play their ridiculously infantile video games, or -- for all we know -- tuck away their secret collection