~Nice Feelings~ by priya gee

When You Love Your Sisters Boyfriend or Husband

In love with your sister's boy friend/husband?

Life could be full of crap but only if we make it so. You could bring a lot of crap into your life in the area of relationship if you tangle with your sister's boyfriend or husband. Let's face the fact; it could happen to anyone, not because you are loose morally but because we are all too human. Here you are and there is your sister's boyfriend/husband. You have known him for some time now.......as your sister's man of course. All of a sudden you find out that you are beginning to notice some details about him; the way he smiles; the way he answers the call and speaks romantically to your sister, the size of the bulge between his legs; the color of his eyes, etc. My...Oh...My! That is sure trouble.

So what do you do? How do you tackle it when you discover that you have developed feelings for your sister's boyfriend?

First let's treat what you must never do.

5 Things you must never do

Don't ever think of getting him alone and expressing your feelings.

That is a sure no-no. If he is like most men, he will surely take advantage of you. It's like asking the rat to apologize to a cat. The rat will definitely end up as a meal. Some ladies do think that calling him aside in private and expressing such feelings will make things better. It sure won't. It will only escalate things since he now knows you are an easy prey.

Do not sleep with him.

This might appear obvious but why do

After The Affair - How To Cope With Feeling Really

Many a romantic novelist and indeed a number of medical experts do believe that when you fall in love, the process can produce certain physical side effects in your body. The novelists say that somebody who has recently fallen in love feels very different and wonders whether they are sick, before realizing that it's just an enchanting byproduct of their new association. Some of those doctors might indeed tie a particular ailment to these recognizable emotions and the power of the human mind to affect our everyday being.

Let's imagine for a second that this is all true. Now, just imagine what happens to your entire being when you discover that your partner has been unfaithful.

Managing the Emotional Aftermath of the Affair

If your husband cheated on you, then you know only too well how devastating this sort of news can be to your life and your emotional well-being. In an instant, your self-esteem and confidence can be shattered, the foundation of one of the most important parts of your life--your marriage--is suddenly cast into uncertainty, and an enormous geyser of emotions seems to erupt in your life.

Here are a few things you can do to help you cope with all the emotional aftermath.

First, allow yourself to feel the emotions. If you feel depressed, angry, frustrated, confused, or anything else, let that be okay. Expressing your emotions is a healthy and helpful way to heal the emotional pain you are going through.

If you bottle up your feelings and push those emotions deep down inside you, you're setting yourself up

Lovely Valentine Day Messages

if i could die early i would ask God if i could be your guardian angel, so i could
wrap my wings around you and embraces you whenever you feel alone...

it is hard to talk when your in love because when i look into your beautiful i get
my breath taken away

R.for red ,red for blood ,blood for heart, heart for love, love for u ,u for me,
me is u , I love u

Ur my strength, My luv, My heart.Ur luvn touch i long 4 so mch,Ur voice so
softly dat whispers i'm ur's 4ever b mine my baby "I LOVE U"

ill drop a tear drop into the ocean & the day i find that tear drop is the day
i stop loving u!

baby i have an addiction problem.people say i shud go to rehab but I
always tell the m i dont wanna go cause im addicted to ... YOU

~Nice Feelings~

Keeping Faith.
is knowing that life is a gift,
and each day we have
on earth is precious;

Keeping Faith.
is climbing above the clouds
and dancing on stardust;

Keeping Faith.
is knowing the value of
friendship and love;

Keeping Faith.
is seeing beauty and wonder
in everything like the
light in every child's eyes;

Keeping Faith.
is appreciating